6 Best Anal Stretchers for Dilation
I’ve put my expert knowledge to use and hand-picked the very best anal stretchers from all the anal toys we’ve tested here at Bedbible! No matter where you are in your anal stretching journey, you’ll find something here to give you a satisfying stretch and broaden your horizons!
Test Winner | Runner-Up | Best for Beginners | Budget-Friendly | Best Butt Plug | Best Spreader |
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Tantus Inner Band Trainer | Oxy Bit by Bit to a Stretched Butthole | b-Vibe Anal Training Kit | Oxy Ass Anchor | Oxy G-Spot Tickler | Oxy Extreme Anal Spreader |
$67Shop Now | $25Shop Now | $160Shop Now | $23Shop Now | $18Shop Now | $69Shop Now |
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How We Test anal stretchers
We’re a team of 350 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best anal stretchers, our testers tried and reviewed 144 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre anal stretchers didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1313 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.Table of contents (10)
Test Winner Tantus Inner Band Trainer
- Smooth silicone anal stretcher dildo
- Super tapered tip and a solid, flat base
- 2 inches wide and 9 inches long
- Made of Tantus’ 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Stretches anus externally and internally
- ✅ Flexible without being floppy
- ✅ Tapered tip helps with insertion
- ✅ Nice and smooth
Cons
- ❌ Doesn't stay in by itself
- ❌ No suction cup base
Why I Chose It
I picked the Tantus Inner Band Trainer as the test winner as it really delivers on it’s promise to stretch you out! I appreciate that the uniform width stretches both the anus and internally.
Our tester, Devon, found that the shape of the toy was able to “gently coax all of [his] muscles open and to relax and stretch at [his] own pace,” which is exactly what you want! He was so impressed by it that he said it “has been the perfect toy / tool for stretching and training.”
I really like that it has a very tapered tip, so the anus can expand gradually. I’m also a big fan of Tantus’ silicone — I’ve tried a few of their products and have loved all of them!
Ken also liked the silicone, commenting that he particularly likes “the soft but firm texture that makes stretching a pleasurable experience.” This is a really important feature as it makes the toy firm enough to insert but soft enough to be comfortable, especially when going deep!
I would say this is a near perfect anal stretching toy! The only thing missing is a suction cup base, which would make it a little easier and more versatile to use.
Runner-Up Oxy Bit by Bit to a Stretched Butthole
- Silicone dildo with a gradually increasing size
- Tapered tip and intense ribbed design
- Suction cup base
- Insertable length of 9.8″ and a diameter of 2.8″ at the widest point close to the base.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Made of body-safe silicone
- ✅ Ribbed design really intensifies the stretch
- ✅ Strong suction cup base
Cons
- ❌ Requires experience with anal depth play
- ❌ The knot diameter is too large compared to the shaft
- ❌ A bit too firm for depth play
Why I Chose It
The Runner-Up offers a more dynamic experience compared to our Test Winner. This anal stretcher features pronounced ridges along the shaft that gradually increase in size. This shape is ideal for challenging your sphincter bit by bit.
Our tester, Mark, already owns the medium version of this anal stretcher and compared the two in his review. His biggest point of critique was something of this length needs to be soft and squishy like the medium version was. This size “is stiffer and so when it enters sigmoid it feels more intrusive. For some people it may be a plus, but for me it was a negative point.”
He very much enjoyed the gradual stretching, “except for the leap from the last “rib” to the knot, where difference in diameter is a whole centimeter (0.4″).” A jump like that is quite difficult and so the knot may not be a realistic or enjoyable feature for some.
All in all, it’s a good quality product that’s made of body-safe silicone. It’s easy to clean and long-lasting. It’s also incredibly affordable!
Best for Beginners b-Vibe Anal Training Kit & Education Set
- Three different sized butt plugs (one vibrating & one weighted)
- Anal douche, lube applicator and travel bag
- In depth guide to anal play included.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Great introduction to anal play
- ✅ All high-quality products
- ✅ Gentle size graduation in plugs
Cons
- ❌ Too small for intermediate-advanced tastes
- ❌ Doesn't come with lube
Why I Chose It
The b-Vibe Anal Training Kit is without a doubt the best introduction to anal play and anal stretching! I love that it’s designed for complete beginners, from the very approachable small sized plug to guidebook that comes with a wealth of information on safe and pleasurable anal play.
Our tester, Aaron, was impressed by “the amount of consideration and passion that went into this” set. Even though he has more experience with anal toys, he still got a lot from the set. He was pleasantly surprised by how much he enjoyed the guidebook, commenting that it is “very thorough, and full of valuable information.”
He enjoyed all three plugs and appreciated that “the widening of the plugs is pleasantly gradual.” He was also surprised by how the vibrations of vibrating plug “kept going, ramping up the intensity to beyond what [he] anticipated.”
The only item in the set he wasn’t a fan of was the lube applicator because he felt it wasn’t so necessary, especially for such small plugs. I agree but I can it being more useful for bigger toys that go deeper!
Budget-Friendly Oxy Ass Anchor Expanding Butt Plug
- Petals open once inside
- Hollow design
- T-bar base.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Silky soft silicone
- ✅ Hollow design is great for partner play
- ✅ Stretch focussed internally
Cons
- ❌ Difficult to insert solo
- ❌ Tip is not tapered
- ❌ Tricky to clean in splits
Why I Chose It
As well as being surprisingly cheap, this little expanding plug has a very clever design! I really like that expanding design means you can enjoy that stretch and fullness without having to stretch the anus as much. Plus, if you’re anything like me, that element of surprise adds a real thrill of excitement!
Felicia took the dive and tested it, and she was pleasantly surprised by how much she “loved the feel of the plug once it was in, and expanded.” She described it as being “a fulfilled, yet empty sensation.”
I think the hollow design is a really fun addition, especially for partnered play. Felicia found the “the hole in the bottom made it so that there was a bit of a “breeze” coming up the tunnel,” which she described as “a wild sensation!”
She was also impressed by the materials, commenting that the silicone has “a very silky texture to it.” From my experience, this is the best for anal play as it makes it much smoother and easier to insert.
The main downside of this plug is that it can be a tricky to insert as you have to hold the petals together and they don’t quite make a tapered tip. Felicia this out first hand, commenting that it’s “pretty much not possible to do on her own.”
Best Butt Plug Oxy G-Spot Tickler XL Butt Plug
- Tapered for gradual stretch
- 3 inches at widest point
- T-bar base.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Asymmetrical shape is very comfortable
- ✅ Made of silicone
- ✅ Easy to insert
Cons
- ❌ Silicone could be a little softer
- ❌ Some molding marks on the base
Why I Chose It
I chose the G-Spot Tickler as the best butt plug for anal stretching partly because of it’s hefty size, but also for it’s asymmetrical design that makes for more comfortable stretching.
Tom was our lucky tester and he also appreciated that the “wide part being asymmetrical allows for a nice full feeling stretch, without it feeling too bulky.”
The other unique aspect of this plug is the slim, probe shaped tip that “makes it easy to get started” and gradually intensifies the stretch. Tom also enjoyed that the slim curved tip “reaches up to just about the junction of the rectum and the sigmoid,” which he found is a “wonderfully sensitive area.”
Overall, he was pleasantly surprised by “how comfortable it was to wear longish term,” especially considering the size!
Best Spreader Oxy Extreme Anal Spreader
- Gradually spreads anus open
- Expands to 3.75 inches
- Adjustable using the wing nuts
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Fully adjustable for gradual spreading
- ✅ Great for training
- ✅ Good toy for medical play
Cons
- ❌ Difficult to use solo
- ❌ Rubber o-rings can get stuck when tightening
- ❌ Tricky to get the right position
Why I Chose It
This is by far the most extreme anal stretcher I’ve come across and I think it will challenge even the most experienced!
Sierra also reviewed this anal stretcher for us liked that it provides “a different take at anal stretching/training” that can really push the limits.
She really liked that “the cool metal makes for an deliciously interesting sensation.” It also has a “simple design and easy assembly.”
However, she found it a little tricky to use solo as it was difficult to manually tighten the wing nuts while the device was inserted. She also ran into another problem that the rubber o-rings would get stuck and prevent her from tightening the wing nuts further.
Given Sierra’s experience I would say this anal stretcher functions best with a partner to do the tightening for you. I think it would be a fantastic addition to partner play or for any partner that really loves a front row seat to your behind!
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Best for Beginners | Budget-Friendly | Best Butt Plug | Best Spreader |
Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.9 / 5.0 from 10 users | 5 / 5.0 from 12 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 19 users | 5 / 5.0 from 10 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 14 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 18 users |
Price | Moderate | Cheap | Premium | Cheap | Affordable | Pricey |
Design | 100 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 65 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 |
Ease of use | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 30 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 50 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 75 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Diameter | 2 inches | 1.2-2.8 inches | Plug 1: 1 inch, Plug 2: 1.3 inches, Plug 3: 1.6 inches | Collapsed: 1.6 inches, Expanded: 2.95 inches | 3.07 inches | 3.75 inches |
Insertable length | 8.5 inches | 9.8 inches | Plug 1: 3.4 inches, Plug 2: 4.4 inches, Plug 3: 4.8 inches | - | 9.75 inches | - |
Length | 9 inches | 11 inches | Plug 1: 3.9 inches, Plug 2: 5.3 inches, Plug 3: 5.4 inches | 3 inches | 9.84 inches | - |
Materials | 100% Ultra-Premium soft silicone | - | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Liquid Silicone | Silicone | Zinc Alloy |
Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Colors Available | Crimson and Black | - | Blue, Black | Black | Orange | N/A |
Storage Bag Included | No | - | Yes | No | No | No |
Flexibility | - | Soft/flexible | - | - | - | - |
Vibration modes | - | - | 6 | - | - | - |
Battery Life | - | - | 75 minutes | - | - | - |
Rechargeable | - | - | Yes | - | - | - |
Charging Time | - | - | 120 minutes | - | - | - |
Allergies | - | - | - | - | - | Contains nickel |
Types of Anal Stretchers
Let’s take a look at some of the most popular types of anal stretchers available!
- Anal training kits – This special type of kit allows you to start to train your butt to take larger and larger objects. As well as coming with several plugs, anal training kits often include a lube applicator, and a douche to help you clear out before you get going. They tend to be great sets whether you’re an expert or only just starting out!
- Dilator kits – Helping you gradually stretch your anus, dilator kits come in a gradually increasing size and can be swapped out for the next step-up as you go along and accommodate the stretch. They’re not so much intended to be put in and left as you would with a butt plug, but still a great stretching option.
- Inflatable butt plugs – If you’re looking for some control then inflatable butt plugs allow you to have some say in the size of your stretch. Simply insert it and start to pump it up until you’re happy with the width. Easy to use and with amazing results, they also feature a quick-release valve to allow for quick and simple removal.
- Butt plug set – As the name suggests, these sets come with an array of butt plugs that range from small to large. Great to insert and leave in, butt plugs will gradually stretch you while you do other things. Simply swap it for the next size up when you’re ready!
Reviewed by:
Devon Scott