Bijoux Indiscrets Slow Sex Clitoral Balm Review
Overall Rating
4.2/5
Bedbible Rating:
3.5/5
User Ratings:
4.8/5
Based on 55 user reviews
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Slow Sex Clitoral Balm was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
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Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Slow Sex Clitoral Balm was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
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Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Slow Sex Clitoral Balm was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
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My Verdict
I was not ready for this balm! I've tried clitoral arousal serums before, but this one was much more powerful than others I've experienced, and I'll tell you know that it was a bit much for me. The 'warming' sensation was more like burning, and though that did subside to leave an aroused feeling, I wasn't in too much of a hurry to experience that again. With so many people online absolutely loving it, I hesitate to give it a negative review, but I recommend that you figure out what you enjoy and what you're looking for before you take the plunge.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
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About The Bijoux Indiscrets Slow Sex Clitoral Balm
The Slow Sex Clitoral Balm from Bijoux Indiscrets is a warming balm designed to increase blood flow to the clitoris and enhance arousal. It contains ginseng, arginine and the patented molecule Thermolate, and has a coconut scent. It's also water-based, making it compatible with all sex toy materials and latex condoms.
Pros
- ✅Fast-acting
- ✅Powerful formula that increases blood flow
- ✅Gorgeous coconut scent
- ✅Water-based
Cons
- ❌Resulted in a burning sensation
- ❌Tube can be annoying and leaky
- ❌May be irritating on sensitive skin
Table of contents (12)
Personal Experience
My main reason for trying out the Slow Sex Clitoral Balm was to try and find a replacement for my current clitoral arousal serum, the oil-based Sensuva ON. That one works great, but I’m hesitant to use it in case it reacts badly with my silicone sex toys or with condoms. This one from Bijoux Indiscrets is water-based, which is safer for that kind of thing, and after trying and loving other products of theirs, I had high hopes!
A Burning Desire
I first tried out the Slow Sex balm with my partner. My favorite time to use this kind of product is when I’m a bit tired or distracted and the arousal isn’t happening as fast as I’d like it to. Going slow can be fun, but sometimes I just get frustrated, so I enjoy having a helping hand. Opening the tube, I was met with a very nice scent of coconut, which I loved. Then, I applied a small amount, half of a pea-sized blob. I was expecting a similar sensation to when I’ve used Sensuva ON in the past — a slow increase in blood flow and a feeling of arousal growing quite deep within. However, that was not what happened. Instead, there was an immediate burning sensation that was actually pretty unpleasant. Rather than being more aroused, I felt more distracted than before and just wanted to wipe it off. However, in the name of science, I tried it again by myself so I could more accurately describe what was going on. Again, the burning sensation was instantaneous and unpleasant, but within a minute or so it had mostly subsided. After that, I did feel more blood flow to the area and could tell more lubrication was happening, so it was doing its job, but just I didn’t love it as much as the Sensuva ON experience.Design
There's not too much to say about the design of the tube, since it's pretty basic. I like that it's minimalistic and doesn't go for the gaudy, porn-esque designs that many other arousal gels do. However, I wish that it had a pump applicator or something similar, as I had a bit of trouble with losing the cap when applying it and then having more of the product leak out.
Ease of Use
This balm is very easy to use, but be warned that you don't need much! If you're a newbie, I would recommend going with a very tiny blob and then adding very small amounts if you need to. As I mentioned above, the tube can be a little annoying, but it's still very simple.
Quality
Like everything I've tried from Bijoux Indiscrets, the Slow Sex Clitoral Balm is very high quality. All of the elements, from the packaging to the tube to the formula, are all well-made. It may seem like a given, but I appreciate that they have listed all the ingredients and are dedicated to making body-safe formulas and being transparent with their customers.
Price
At $17, I would say that this balm comes in at around the same price as other clitoral arousal gels. Whether it's worth it for you will depend entirely on what you're looking for. It is cheaper than my personal favorite, the Sensuva ON oil, but it didn't give me the sensation I was really looking for. However, if you enjoy the feeling of warming or tingling, then this may be your perfect fit.
Performance
This balm has stunning reviews on Bijoux Indiscrets' website, with the vast majority saying that they loved the product and the sensations it gave them. Seeing as they do advertise it as a warming balm, I'm guessing that that's exactly what those reviewers were looking for, but it wasn't quite my cup of tea. I like something a bit more subtle, though it did do exactly what it promised!
Packaging
They've gone with the classic 'orchid representing the clitoris' motif on the packaging, but I do think it's quite pretty. It's not overly subtle, especially with the words 'Slow Sex' on the front, but it's a nice unboxing experience and is also completely recyclable.
Materials and care
The Slow Sex Clitoral Balm has a water-based formula that is skin-safe, non-staining and safe to use with silicone and latex. However, the warming effect may cause some irritation if you have particularly sensitive skin, so keep that in mind and only use small amounts if you're concerned.
Specifications and features
| Volume | 0.34 fl. oz |
| Ingredients | Aqua, Ethylhexyl Cocoate, Glycerin, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride, Ceteareth-20, Cetearyl Alcohol, Glyceryl Stearate, C12-15 Alkyl Benzoate, Sorbitol, Aroma, Pfaffia Glomerata Root Juice, Peg-40 Hydrogenated Castor Oil, Arginine Pca, Phenoxyethanol, Benzyl Alcohol, Carbomer, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Triethanolamine, Potassium Sorbate, Ethylhexylglycerin, Disodium Edta, Sodium Saccharin, 1,2-hexanediol, Caprylyl Glycol, Menthyl Lactate, Vanillyl Butyl Ether, Panax Ginseng Root Extract, Sodium Benzoate, Tocopherol, Ascorbyl Palmitate |
| Allergies | Paraben-free |
| Condom safe | Compatible with latex condoms |
Comparing Bijoux Indiscrets Slow Sex Clitoral Balm with alternatives
 Bijoux Indiscrets Slow Sex Clitoral Balm | |||||
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Overall score | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 3.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 3.5 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.8 / 5.0 from 55 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 18 users | 3.7 / 5.0 from 161 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4 / 5.0 from 79 users |
| Price | Cheap | Affordable | Affordable | Cheap | Affordable |
| Design | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - |
| Volume | 0.34 fl. oz | 0.28 fl. oz | 0.17 fl. oz | 0.5 fl. oz | 0.34 fl oz fl. oz |
| Ingredients | Aqua, Ethylhexyl Cocoate, Glycerin, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride, Ceteareth-20, Cetearyl Alcohol, Glyceryl Stearate, C12-15 Alkyl Benzoate, Sorbitol, Aroma, Pfaffia Glomerata Root Juice, Peg-40 Hydrogenated Castor Oil, Arginine Pca, Phenoxyethanol, Benzyl Alcohol, Carbomer, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Triethanolamine, Potassium Sorbate, Ethylhexylglycerin, Disodium Edta, Sodium Saccharin, 1,2-hexanediol, Caprylyl Glycol, Menthyl Lactate, Vanillyl Butyl Ether, Panax Ginseng Root Extract, Sodium Benzoate, Tocopherol, Ascorbyl Palmitate | Butyrospermium Parkii (Shea) butter, Glycerin, Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis (Sweet Almond) oil, Sucrose Palmitate, Theobroma Cacao (Cocoa) seed butter, Cocos Nucifera oil, Parfum, Menthyl Ethylamido Oxalate, Capryl Glycol, Anillyl Butyl Ether, 1.2-Hexanediol, Ascorbyl Palmitate, Benzyl Benzoate, Hexyl Cinnamal, Citral, Limonene | Proprietary Essential Oil Blend including: Sweet Almond Oil, Cinnamo-mum Zeylanicum, Natural Tocopherols (vitamin e); silica, Natural Flavors, Rosemary Oil Extract | Aqua (Water), Glycerin, Polysorbate 80, Aroma (Fragrance), Spilanthes Acmella Flower Extract, Xanthan Gum, Niacinamide, Sodium Benzoate, Sodium Saccharin, Citric Acid | Isononyl Isononanoate, Isopropyl Palmitate, Oleyl Alcohol, Zanthoxylum Alatum Extract, Ethylene/Propylene/Styrene Copolymer, Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Extract, Rosmarinus Officinalis (Rosemary) Leaf Extract, Tetrasodium Glutamate Diacetate |
| Allergies | Paraben-free | - | No menthol, L-Arginine, glycerin or parabens, Contains Almond Oil | - | - |
| Condom safe | Compatible with latex condoms | Not compatible with latex condoms | No | - | Do Not Use with Latex or Polyisoprene Condoms |
| Waterproof | - | - | - | - | No |
| Openings | - | - | - | - | Twist off cap - flat face applicator |
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