7 Best BDSM Collars
As someone who absolutely loves using BDSM collars in the bedroom (or anywhere else, for that matter), I’ve compiled this list of our top 7 BDSM collars to present to you today. Combining my expert knowledge with our Bedbible Testers’ personal experience with these products, I’ve rated and reviewed each of these products in terms of design, ease of use, and overall quality. This way, you have all the information you need to pick the best one for you!
Test Winner | Runner-Up | Budget Friendly | Expert Pick | Best Day Collar | Most Stylish | Glow-In-The-Dark |
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Sportsheets Sincerely Bow Tie Collar | Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar | BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps | DOMINIX Deluxe Bondage Collar w. Clamps | Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Single Choker | Bijoux Indiscrets Maze | Bondage Boutique Glow Collar and Leash |
$38Shop Now | Shop Now | $20Shop Now | Shop Now | $25Shop Now | $41Shop Now | $20Shop Now |
Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons |
How We Test BDSM collars
We’re a team of 349 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best BDSM collars, our testers tried and reviewed 251 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre BDSM collars didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1303 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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Test Winner Sportsheets Sincerely Bow Tie BDSM Collar and Leash
- Faux leather collar with a decorate bow
- Black chain leash with a wrist loop
- 2 D-rings to connect the chain on either side of the collar.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Comfortable to wear
- ✅ Gender neutral design
- ✅ Adjustable fit
- ✅ Swivel attachment on the leash
Cons
- ❌ Too many cable ties in the packaging
- ❌ Collar is quite thick
Why I Chose It
While the design might not be everyone’s cup of tea, it takes the cake as the Test Winner in this review. It’s sturdy, durable, comfortable to wear and has chunky leash that can withstand quite a bit of tugging and pulling.
Our tester, Isabelle, was a bit afraid of it looking or feeling a bit too bulky. However, it looked much better once it was on and was perfectly understated: “I really like that it’s a unisex design and would fit a lot of different looks. I loved how great it looked with my Master Series Naughty Kitty Cat Mask!“.
The only apparent con during use is that “the chain is quite long and heavy so it can get in the way a bit, but it’s super easy to clip on and off as you want to”. The chunky chain also contributes to the BDSM collar’s overall durability. It’s a good choice for those who want something decorative yet functional!
Runner-Up Dominix Deluxe Heavy Leather Collar
- Padded leather collar with 3 large D-rings
- Adjustable from 11.5-18 inches in circumference
- Flat metal studs adorn the sides of the collar.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ High quality leather
- ✅ A lot of options in terms of attachment points
- ✅ Perfect for heavy duty bondage play
Cons
- ❌ Expensive since it doesn't include a leash
- ❌ Will not fit around larger/hicker necks
Why I Chose It
Next in line is the Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar. This sturdy collar is my top pick for those who want something strong and durable. A true BDSM collar for more intense and heavy-duty bondage play. According to our tester, Jesse, “if you’re looking something that beats the vast array of cheap and cheerful collars out there I don’t think you can do much better than this.”
First of all, the thickness of the collar makes it stand out. This collar doesn’t only look more intimidating, it feels more intense and restrictive compared to thinner ones. The padded design contributes to this restriction but also helps to keep the wearer comfortable.
Jesse said he “really enjoyed using this during play sessions” even though it “got a bit hot under the collar” at times. It still felt nice against the skin. Another great feature is the 3 large D-rings: “I love that I could be leashed, hooked up to 3 different rings at once.” This just makes the collar a lot more versatile compared to other collar with a singular attachment point.
The genuine leather is a lot more durable and long-lasting compared to faux leather collars, provided it’s cared for properly. So even though it’s a bit pricey, it’s a long-term investment!
Budget Friendly BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps
- Nylon collar with adjustable velcro fastening
- One D-ring in the front that connects two nipple clamps
- Adjustable crocodile-style nipple clamps.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Very beginner-friendly collar and clamp design
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Adjustable
- ✅ Lightweight
Cons
- ❌ Not lockable
- ❌ The chains/clamps are not removable
Why I Chose It
The BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps allows you to take things up a notch with a pleasurable pinch to the nips! It’s my top recommendation for those who don’t want to spend too much but still want some good value for money. Now, the biggest con is probably that the clamps aren’t removable. This is always nice in case you’re not in the mood for using clamps or simply want to use the collar for something else. Luckily, the D-ring is quite large and can hold additional BDSM gear as well as the chains for the clamps.
That said, the nipple clamps are also what makes this collar stand out in a positive way. Our tester, Catherine, thought they add a whole new dimension to the collar in terms of both sensation and aesthetics: “Who can resist the look of the chain draped attractively between the breasts? Not me!” Also, the length of the chains “can keep the clamps in a comfortable place, but can also be manipulated for a more intense experience.”
Catherine and her partner got a lot of ban for their buck by trying it out in various ways. She wore the collar while he wore the clamps for a good session of torturous teasing and pinching. She also tried to wear the clamps and wrap the collar around her hand while masturbating. So, despite the small price tag, I do think you get a surprising amount of value for money. The adjustable velcro and crocodile clamps also cater to complete beginners as well as intermediate users. Just keep in mind that won’t withstand very heavy.duty bondage play.
Expert Pick DOMINIX Deluxe Bondage Collar and Chains w. Clamps
- Large leather collar with two sets of nipple clamps and labia clamps
- The tweezer-style clamps have soft PVC tips
- The collar itself has a buckle fastening
- Multiple o-rings on the collar and chains for securing additional bondage gear.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Really thick leather band
- ✅ Bulky and strong chains
- ✅ Two different sets of clamps to use wherever you want
Cons
- ❌ Clamp tips are made of PVC
- ❌ Clamps are not removable
Why I Chose It
The DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps takes the cake as my Expert Pick because it looks amazing, offers versatile additional features, and is still suitable for intense BDSM play! Our tester, Isabelle, also felt that this product was more than just a collar:
“I love how putting something like this set on can instantly get me into the right headspace and add a little boost of confidence! The thick collar sits really beautifully over my chest, and I love the feeling of the cold chunky chains brushing against my skin, sending shivers all over my body!”
The overall experience is so rich because of all the clamps on different body parts and the sensations from the chains as you move around. The collar is still restrictive but also decorative, which makes it stand out from other BDSM collars with clamps. “The clamps can be a bit of a fiddle to get on but once on, they stay on pretty well and leave you super sensitive in the best way!”
Overall, I think it’s a solid BDSM collar and clamps set at a reasonable price! The genuine leather is also more durable compared to faux leather with the proper care.
Best Day Collar Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Single Choker
- Simple and elegant day choker for everyday use
- Adjustable between 12.2″ and 16.1″ in circumference
- Made of high quality PU leather with a small yet functional metal o-ring.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Luxurious yet understated design
- ✅ Discreet enough for everyday use
- ✅ Easy to use and adjust
- ✅ Functional for bondage play as well
Cons
- ❌ Cannot withstand more heavy duty bondage play
- ❌ Not incredibly size inclusive
Why I Chose It
The Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Single Choker is the top contender for a simple day collar that can be worn comfortably and discreetly out and about. Our tester, Cassie, was impressed with its luxurious simplicity:
“I absolutely love the Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Single Choker! First of all, I think it’s gorgeous. Simple, sexy, elegant, and subtle enough to wear as a cool accessory to an everyday outfit!”
Even though it is adjustable, Cassie noted that she “could have used a bigger size or simply more adjustability”. Apparently, that wasn’t anything a little DIY improvement could fix.
The only major thing to note about this collar is that it obviously won’t withstand a lot of tugging and pulling. The fastening mechanism isn’t as sturdy as a buckle! Still, I think this collar is a good choice for something discreet and affordable yet cute and luxurious.
Most Stylish Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker
- Elegant statement collar
- The tassels double as a smaller flogger
- Made of high quality faux leather.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Versatile design
- ✅ Ideal for introductory bondage play
- ✅ Beautiful for both everyday-wear and BDSM fashion
Cons
- ❌ Not for heavy duty use
- ❌ Not very subtle
Why I Chose It
What is it? A piece of statement jewelry? A really sexy kink collar? With this beautiful Bijoux Indiscrets choker, you’ll get both without compromising on that classic BDSM look. A stylish accessory for a cool event and a somewhat multi-functional bondage collar in private. Sometimes BDSM toys can be a little overwhelming, with too many daring chains or thick black pieces of leather. Yet I think this collar does the opposite – yes it has a leather collar, but it is attractive and somewhat jewelry-like, taking away the harshness and adding some elegance and style.
On the flip side, this collar is not suitable for extreme pulling and tugging, but it will do just fine for gently leading your sub across the room. Our tester, Kasia, passed it with flying colors, saying “The quality is great, the faux leather feels nice around the neck, and the fastening provides a secure fit.”
With the long tassels available to you for leash play, sensation play, or even light impact play, the world is your kinky little oyster! Even though it is a tad more expensive than some of the other products in this review, I’d say you get your money’s worth with all of these benefits.
Glow-In-The-Dark Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash
- Faux leather collar and leash set
- Black and white design with a glow-in-the-dark feature.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Chained leash
- ✅ Unique design
- ✅ Beginner-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Can stain easily
- ❌ Some may prefer a longer leash
Why I Chose It
The Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash Set is made from flexible faux leather that transforms from a subtle white in daylight to a captivating glow when darkness falls, adding a unique aesthetic to your kinky nocturnal adventures.
Our tester Christine was “a little unimpressed with its initial appearance, but its glow-in-the-dark feature truly shines, adding a fun twist to our playtime.”
The collar has seven adjustable holes and a buckle fastening, ensuring a comfortable fit for a variety of neck sizes. This set is a great choice for those who prefer to avoid real leather, but still enjoy an edgier look.
It’s a comfortable BDSM collar that’s easy to use, affordable, and a bit more sturdy compared to collars with a velcro fastening. On the flip side, it won’t last as long or withstand as much tugging as a genuine leather alternative.
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Budget Friendly | Expert Pick | Best Day Collar | Most Stylish | Glow-In-The-Dark |
Overall score | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
User rating | 5 / 5.0 from 2 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 16 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 184 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 5 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 21 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 5 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 14 users |
Price | Affordable | Pricey | Affordable | Affordable | Cheap | Moderate | Cheap |
Design | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
Ease of use | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
Quality | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 70 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Length | Collar: 23 inches, Leash: 50 inches | 22 inches | Chains: 13 inches | Chain: 17.75 inches & 15.75 inches | 18 inches | Tassels: 15 inches | Collar: 20.5 inches, Leash: 35.5 inches |
Materials | Faux leather (polyurethane), nickel-free metal | Leather, metal | Nylon Webbing, Metal, Rubber | Leather, metal, PVC | Polyurethane and metal | Faux Leather | Faux Leather |
Fastening | Buckle | Buckle | Velcro, Crocodile Clamps | Buckle | Metal stud | Metal stud | Buckle |
Storage Bag Included | No | No | No | No | No | No | No |
Adjustable | Yes | Circumference: 11.5-18 inches | Collar: 16-18.5 inches | Collar: 14-18 | Between 12.2-16.1 inches | Min: 10.63 inches, Max: 16.14 inches | Yes |
Width | - | 2.75 inches | - | - | 0.47 inches | - | - |
What to Look For in a BDSM Collar? A Buyer's Guide
Quick things to consider
- Size – Will the collar fit around your sub’s neck? Make sure to check the measurement and the range of adjustability in your collar. If the collar in question has other adornments (such as chains or harnesses), you’ll need to ensure that these will fit properly as well.
- Lockable – While having a BDSM collar that can be locked is a nice touch for some, others may not require it. Generally, a non-lockable collar will be cheaper.
- Comfort – You should establish how long you intend your sub to wear this specific collar. If it’s only for short-term wearing then comfort is less important. However, if you intend this collar to be worn for extended periods of time then comfort is especially important.
- D-rings – If you’re buying a BDSM collar with the idea of chaining your sub, then you’ll want to make sure that the collar in question has enough attachment points (sturdy D-rings or O-rings). Without these, you won’t have any safe ways to chain your sub!
- Style – This all comes down to personal preference. Do you want something discreet enough to wear in public or something that screams dungeon sub? Some BDSM collar also offer a nice medium between the two!
Type of Collar
First of all, you need to figure out which type of BDSM collar would help you fulfill your kinky desires. A cute little consideration collar-like look, a durable training collar for sturdy bondage, or a super restrictive posture collar?
Design
Consider what design you and your partner might enjoy – both in terms of aesthetic and function. Something cute and elegant, something with spikes or studs, something traditionally BDSM-y or something more colorful and modern? Do you want multiple fastenings points for some intricate bondage or more of clean look with one O-ring opening?
Materials
Which look and feel do you want against your subs neck? You can’t really go wrong with the classic collar materials, like leather, metal, or PVC. These are reliable and durable collar options. Not that other materials can’t be as good, just make sure that they’re compatible with what you’re intending to use them for.
Durability
Speaking of being compatible with what you’re planning on using your collar for, the durability of your collar is important! Of course, there are limits to how rough you can be with a collar, but depending on whether or not you’re using your collar for more extreme bondage or simply to keep a more unruly sub in check, you don’t want your collar to break under the pressure! Of coure, the slimmer and thinner a collar is, the less likely it is to be able to withstand extreme circumstances.
Price
BDSM collars are actually not the most expensive type of kinky equipment out there and you can actually get your hands on pretty good collars without going bankrupt. Again, your expectations for the collars quality and durability will also influence your price point. If you’re a beginner looking to try out this form of power play and don’t need much durability, you can easily get away with purchasing a collar at a lower price.
Types of Bondage Collars
There are various types of bondage collars, each with distinct purposes and designs:
- Dog Collars: Resemble dog collars, often with spikes and a D-ring for attaching a leash.
- Decorative (Jewelry): Also known as “day collars,” these are fashion-like collars worn daily, symbolizing BDSM relationship status and devotion.
- Posture: Designed to maintain good posture by holding the neck in position.
- Muzzles & Masks: Full-head straps, often animal-like, used in roleplaying, focusing on appearance or silencing.
- Padded: Comfortable for long-term wear, without discomfort from sharp edges.
- Lockable: Prevents removal without permission, some requiring upgraded locks for security.
- With Leash: Includes a leash, commonly used in puppy and pony play.
- Harness: Extends beyond the neck to encompass the body.
- With Restraints: Incorporates restraints for hands or other body parts, sometimes more cost-effective than separate purchases.
- With Nipple Clamps: Features attached nipple clamps for additional play.
- Ball Gag: Integrates a ball gag for silencing.
- Consideration Collars: Worn during a Dom’s evaluation period of a sub’s suitability.
- Training Collars: Durable, used during playtime for training subs.
- Slave Collars: Extremely sturdy and restrictive, ideal for heavy-duty BDSM, often non-adjustable and lockable.
- Permanent Collars: Metal, sometimes custom-fitted for comfortable, subtle everyday wear, symbolizing deep commitment.
- Day Collars: A less intense or alternate form of permanent collars, discreet for daily wear.
The different types of BDSM collars actually have more to do with their meaning in BDSM relationships than how they look, feel, and which materials they’re made of. More specifically, they are categorized by their indication of the state of a Dom/sub (D/s) relationship.
These meanings can vary from couple to couple or from person to person.
Sometimes a sub collar is…
- Just a sign that someone is in some kind of D/s relationship.
- Simply an accessory brought out specifically for BDSM play sessions.
- A (sometimes permanent) symbol of serious commitment to their Dom.
There are of course many other reasons someone would be wearing a collar, but I’ll get back to that later.
For now, let’s go through the list of different types of BDSM collars!
Consideration Collars
Consideration collars are in the most literal sense, a collar given to a sub by a Dom to wear during the period where they are considering to pursue the D/s relationship. This type of BDSM collar doesn’t even actually have to be a real collar. It could easily be a necklace, bracelet or other jewelry with the same meaning. But often, it will be a subtle leather collar.
Training Collars
This is often the next level up from the consideration collar. A Dom will offer this new more heavy-duty bondage collar to their sub for them to wear during this new phase. The Dom starts training the sub to the standards they expect from now on and as we advance. This collar will often be sturdier than the consideration collar to be more functional and better withstand whichever BDSM activities the Dom is training their sub in.
Protection Collars
Protection collar is not the “next step” in this process. These types of BDSM collars can be offered and worn at any point in a D/s relationship – or even outside of one! A protection collar is something a sub can wear to be under the protection of a certain Dom to signal to others in the BDSM community that they are not available—often worn in the company of other kinksters – at a sex club or sex party, perhaps. Most importantly, this collar does not entail a deeper relationship. This collar signifies the protection of a sub, not possession of one.
Play Collars/Slave Collars
Play collars are the type of collars that are often too… “BDSM-looking” to be wearing in public or around the house, so they’re mostly brought out specifically for playtime! The great part about collars specifically made for BDSM play is the wide variety of extra features they often include. There are different kinds of designs for different flavors of kink!
This next level up from a training collar is called a slave collar. This type of collar holds great significance within the BDSM community, as it signifies a Dom officially accepting a sub as their slave. It signifies a slightly more committed and long-term Dom/sub relationship. Slave collars can be the same as play collars in the way that they are often quite sturdy and made for more heavy duty bondage.
Collar & Leash
Adding a leash to a collar can emphasize a Dom has power over a sub. Drag your sub around the room, and use it (safely!) for breath play, or even puppy play!
Sets like this Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead add some fun to your physical restraints. This kind of collar is great to use for some at-home fun, but is also a great accessory for showing off your D/s dynamic at a kink event or sex party!
Collar With Nipple Clamps
Most collars with O-rings or D-rings are compatible with any attachments with small hooks. So, adding chains or cuffs directly to your collar should never be a problem. This way, you can adjust your bondage to your liking.
Alternatively, some play collars have a design that incorporates cuffs, a full-body harness, or even nipple and clit clamps.
Posture Collar
Posture collars are a special type of BDSM play collar for particularly restrictive play. Designed to keep a sub’s head in place and restrict any movement, this device is perfect for keeping your sub in the exact position you want them in during your session.
As always, ensure the wearer’s comfort and consent at all times. These collars are also not suitable for long-term use as they may weaken the muscles in the neck over time!
Collar With Ball Gag
Another fun feature to add to any collar or posture collar is, of course, a ball gag. Stockroom’s posture collar with a silicone ball gag makes up the perfect attachment that restricts both the mouth and neck in full adjustable tandem!
This type of collar is still fully compatible with other attachments, so you can add additional accessories and features to this already devious setup!
Collar With Anal Hook
Of the many extra features a play or slave collar can have, this one is something special!
Attach the collar to your sub and secure the padlock, insert the hook into their anus, tighten the bar to your liking, and secure the setting with the seocnd padlock. Enjoy the full control you’re having over your sub’s movement… or, rather, lack thereof…
Permanent Collars
Alright, now things are getting serious with your collaring practice. Permanent collars are the type of BDSM collars worn to symbolize a very committed relationship between a Dom and a sub. Some consider their permanent collar as having the same depth of significance as a wedding band! These collars are therefore never really removed unless absolutely necessary. Therefore, they are often more subtle, lightweight, and comfortable to wear. Some like to secure their permanent collar with a small padlock while their Dom keeps the key safe.
Day Collars
The collars are very similar to the permanent collars because they are also meant for everyday wear. Although day collars are not always permanent collars. A D/s can be in any stage of their relationship for them to agree on finding a discreet symbol of their kinky ways to be worn on an everyday basis. Day collars are often very subtle and more about personal significance than the public display of your D/s relationship. Like the consideration collar, it can be anything you wear on your body. Often some kind of jewelry, like a choker necklace, a ring, or an anklet. Some people have several day collars to match the style they’re going for on any given day!
How are Day Collars Different from Other Types of BDSM Collars?
So BDSM collars can be many things – they can look very different and also have very different meanings and purposes.
If you want an in-depth guide to all the different meanings, functions and features of different types of BDSM collars, I’ve actually written a whole blog post about it!
For now, I’ll just tell you about how BDSM day collars are different from other BDSM collars. First things first, there are many different types of bondage collars out there (again, check out the blog post for more info!):
- Consideration Collars
- Training Collars
- Protection Collars
- Play Collars
- Permanent Collars
- Day Collars
Apart from day collars and permanent collars, most of these collars will often be used during some BDSM play time and need to be functional for bondage or leash play. Functional sub collars for play time might even have some extra bells and whistles attached to them. Some are collars with nipple clamps or collars with a ball gag.
Day collars differ from these other types of collars since they are not neccessarily meant for play. They rarely require any functionality for bondage play at all. Day collars are moreso worn as a personal symbol one’s status as a sub in a Dom/sub relationship. A personal signifier for just you and your Dom (and maybe other kinksters you see out and about) but subtle enough to not attract unwanted attentin in public.
Reviewed by:
Isabelle Uren