8 Best Dildos with Handles
Dildos with handles are a godsend for people like me: a perpetual pillow princess, who very rarely uses suction cup dildos for riding and grinding. Instead of getting tired and cramped hands from reaching down to grasp a flat base, dildos with handles offer amazing assistance and comfort during solo and partnered play! In this review, I’ve compiled a list of the best dildos with handles that we’ve tested here at Bedbible.
Test Winner4.8  Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.8/5 User Ratings: 4.8/5 Based on 12 user reviews | Runner-Up4.1 Overall Rating 4.1/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.6/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 3.6/5 Based on 11 user reviews | Budget-Friendly4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Mike JohnsonUser Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 116 user reviews | Best For Beginners4.7 Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.7/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 6 user reviews | Best Vibrating Dildo4.7 Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.8/5 Reviewed by: Jess AdamsUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 78 user reviews | Best For Dual Stimulation4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings: 4.5/5 Based on 75 user reviews | Best For Couples5.0 Overall Rating 5.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.9/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 3 user reviews | Expert Pick4.9 Overall Rating 4.9/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.8/5 Based on 387 user reviews |
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How We Test dildos with handles
We’re a team of 329 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best dildos with handles, our testers tried and reviewed 112 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre dildos with handles didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1157 toys over the past 6 years.
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If You’re Looking For…
- The best dildo with a handle for limited wrist or hand strength – The Fun Factory Big Boss has a loop handle that’s super easy to hold on to. The raised buttons are also very easy to press.
- The best dildo with a handle for larger bodies – The Tantus Echo Handle (or any of the Tantus dildos with handles) have long handles that are easy to reach if you have a larger body to wrap around.
- The best dildo with a handle for BDSM play – If you’re looking for dildo with handles because specifically to use during some kinky power play, I highly recommend the Tantus Anaconda. The size and texture is deliciously overwhelming.
Test Winner Tantus Echo Handle
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.8/5
Based on 12 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Echo Handle was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.
Rating: Tantus Echo Handle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Echo Handle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Tantus Echo Handle was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Silicone dildo with a non-anatomical design
- Ergonomic handle with finger ridges and a grippy texture
- Glossy, iridescent purple silicone.
Pros
- ✅ The handle is super comfortable to hold
- ✅ Cute color with a whimsical shape
- ✅ Beautiful shimmering purple color
- ✅ Great size for intermediate and advanced users
Cons
- ❌ Only available in one color
- ❌ The ridges aren't that noticeable
Why I Chose It
The Tantus Echo Handle takes the cake as the Test Winner for this review. It has that classic handle design combined with a fun, non-anatomical shape, and premium quality materials.
I had the pleasure of testing out the Tantus Echo Handle myself, and it has revolutionized solo play for me! Being able to grip comfortably around that long, flexible, ergonomic handle makes all the difference in the world when you’re thrusting away! Of course, the thick tip with a slightly pronounced tip does feel nice on the g-spot (which is probably I liked it). The smooth ridges along the shaft, however, weren’t as noticeable as I was expecting.
I really appreciate that Tantus dildos are made of a special formula of “ultra-premium” silicone. They are 100% safe to use internally, easy to clean, incredibly durable and long-lasting with very little maintenance necessary. You can even sterilize it in various ways by either boiling it, bleaching it, or putting it in the dishwasher.
All in all, this is a great quality dildo with handle. The price is great for something that both looks cool, is versatile and easy to use, and will last you a lifetime.
Runner-Up Tantus Anaconda
Overall Rating
4.1/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
3.6/5
Based on 11 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Anaconda was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.
Rating: Tantus Anaconda was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Anaconda was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Tantus Anaconda was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Girthy silicone dildo with a realistic design
- Ergonomic handle with finger ridges and a grippy texture
- Firm shaft with a flexible handle.
Pros
- ✅ Girth and shape are great for g-spot stimulation
- ✅ Provides a satisfying stretch
- ✅ The design features very realistic details
Cons
- ❌ The grippy texture causes friction
- ❌ Can be too firm for some
Why I Chose It
The Tantus Anaconda was a clear Runner-Up for me. It shares many similarities to the Tantus Echo Handle, like the flexible and ergonomic handle and the “ultra-premium” silicone. Of all the three Tantus dildos with handles that I tested, however, the girth and shape of the Anaconda was my favorite! This is really great for more experienced users who prefer something thick and solid.
That said, this isn’t my absolute favorite overall because of the rough texture that the shaft has. That grippy texture from the handle actually continues up to the insertable bit. This makes it less comfortable to use for longer or more vigorous sessions. I found out that putting a condom on it helps with the friction, but, ideally, it wouldn’t be so rough in the first place.
Still, the premium quality and the hyper-realistic design makes this dildo a pretty good contender. I like that it’s super easy to keep clean and sanitary and that it’s very durable and longlasting.
Budget-Friendly Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Mike JohnsonUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 116 user reviews
Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.
Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Double-ended glass dildo
- One end features a beaded shaft
- The other end has a curved shaft with a bulbous tip.
Pros
- ✅ Glass is non-porous and can be sterilized
- ✅ Compatible with all lubes
- ✅ Great for temperature play
- ✅ Firmness provides intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation
- ✅ Very beginner-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Takes time to warm up
- ❌ Might be too small for more experienced users
Why I Chose It
This glass dildo with handle is a simple and elegant toy. It only has a diameter of 1 inch which makes it extremely accessible for beginners. That said, the glass provides some pretty firm stimulation, so I’d say it’s significantly more intense than a slim silicone dildo. Our tester, Mike, tried it with his wife and concluded that “While it might not deliver the satisfying sensation of ‘fullness’ on its own, it transforms into an excellent accomplice when paired with oral or manual techniques.”
The double-ended design (which is what essentially makes it a dildo with a handle) makes it versatile. Each end offers different sensations, and are more or less suitable for both vaginal and anal play. Whichever end you’re not using doubles as a handle that’s surprisingly easy to grip – even when covered in lube!
Glass is one of my favorite dildo materials since it’s easy to use, compatible with all types of lube, great for temperature play, and easy to sterilize. I love that the curved tip on one end really targets the g-spot or prostate. It’s incredibly cheap for something so long-lasting, beautiful, and versatile.
Best For Beginners Tantus Goddess Handle
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 6 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Goddess Handle was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.
Rating: Tantus Goddess Handle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Goddess Handle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Tantus Goddess Handle was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Slim silicone dildo with a whimsical, non-anatomical design
- Ergonomic handle with finger ridges and a grippy texture
- Glossy, iridescent purple silicone.
Pros
- ✅ Slim diameter is great for newbies
- ✅ Made of high quality silicone
- ✅ Non-anatomical design with a gorgeous, shimmering purple color
Cons
- ❌ Doesn't provide great g-spot or p-spot stimulation
Why I Chose It
The Tantus Goddess Handle is my top choice for beginners who need a good dildo with a handle. The Tantus Goddess Handle is very similar to the Tantus Echo Handle. They both even share that iridescent purple color. The main difference is the diameter and the shape of the shaft.
Compared to the Echo’s 1.75″ in diameter, the Goddess is only 1.5″. Combined with the smooth surface of the silicone, this dildo is a lot more suitable for those who are new to using dildos or simply prefer less of a stretch. It’s perfect if you’re also into anal play!
I was the lucky tester for this dildo, and I really enjoyed the unconventional shape. It stimulating but not too textured, and the non-anatomical design is fun and whimsical. Just as with the other dildos with handles from Tantus, I very much appreciate the ergonomic grip on the long handle. It’s super comfortable to thrust with, and provides a bit more insertable length. All in all, it’s another high quality option that’s both durable, long-lasting, and approachable for beginners who don’t want their hands to cramp up!
Best Vibrating Dildo Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5
Reviewed by:
Jess AdamsUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 78 user reviews
Rating: Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.
Rating: Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Girthy, vibrating silicone dildo
- Finger loop handle made of ABS plastic
- 3 raised buttons to control the 12 vibrating settings
- Semi-realistic design and a curved shaft.
Pros
- ✅ Raised buttons are super easy to use
- ✅ Finger loop is very comfortable to use
- ✅ Travel lock
- ✅ Fully waterproof
Cons
- ❌ Surface easily collects dust and lint
Vibrations:
Rating: Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Fun Factory Big Boss is my top pick for those want their dildo with a handle to come with rumbly vibrations.
Now, this vibrating dildo is large and in charge (it even says it right there in the name). While our tester, Jess, was a bit intimidated by the size and first, she was put at ease when she first handled it and “realized how flexible and comfortable the toy was.” The shaft itself is made of soft silicone that isn’t as unforgiving as the silicone in the Tantus dildos. This means that it’s “perfect for finding different angles and speeds of play”
The looped handle is made of firm ABS plastic and “is perfect for keeping a solid grip on the toy during play”. Even the raised buttons are easy to find and press. The Big Boss may look intimidating, but the design makes it easy to wield.
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Best For Dual Stimulation We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings:
4.5/5
Based on 75 user reviews
Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.
Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Silicone rabbit-style vibrator with a wide handle
- Poseable shaft and flexible clitoral stem
- App-control feature offers customizable vibration settings and long-distance play.
Pros
- ✅ The silicone is super soft and squishy
- ✅ Fully waterproof
- ✅ Can be adjusted to fit your body
- ✅ Offers dual stimulation
- ✅ App-controls allow for very versatile play
Cons
- ❌ Might be not girthy enough for more experienced users
- ❌ Pricey
Vibrations:
Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The We-Vibe Nova 2 is my top pick for those who love enjoying a blended orgasm from dual stimulation. This is a rabbit-style vibrator with a nice, wide base to hold onto, making it a lot easier to use on yourself or a partner without straining your hands or wrists.
My favorite feature of the We-Vibe Nova 2 is the adjustable shaft and the flexible clitoral stem. As someone who has always had issues with rabbit vibrators not fitting my body, this customizable toy is a godsend!
After testing it out for us, the We-Vibe Nova 2 quickly became Kasia’s favorite sex toy in her collection. The vibrations are incredibly rumbly in both motors, and the clitoral stem even feels like it’s tapping against your clit when at full blast. The app-controlled features take things up a notch and offer so much more versatility in use and interactive features.
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Best For Couples Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small
Overall Rating
5.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 3 user reviews
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Silicone strapless strap-on
- Bulbous insertable pony and a slimline dildo with a pronounced tip
- Adjustable hinge allows you to customize the fit
- Doubles as a dildo with a handle when not used as a strap-on.
Pros
- ✅ Great quality construction
- ✅ A few different sizes and colors to choose from
- ✅ The adjustability makes it accommodate different bodies
- ✅ Provides great internal stimulation on both sides
Cons
- ❌ The dildo is a bit floppy
Why I Chose It
I also had the pleasure of testing out the Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small myself. While it worked surprisingly well as a strapless strap-on, I want to focus on how well it performed as a dildo with a handle! For solo play, I had a blast with this little device. I tried using both ends for different kinds of internal stimulation. I quickly noticed how much easier it was to thrust the dildo when the opposite end doubled as a handle.
The adjustable features actually allowed my to line up the bulbous pony with my clitoris. This way I could grind up against that while enjoying the dildo internally. Even though it’s a simple silicone construction without any vibrating bells or whistles, it was an amazing additional function!
I would really recommend this to couples who use dildos regularly–both on each other or on themselves–and could benefit from this built-in handle. If those couples also have an interest in strap-on play or pegging (or might want the option to in the future), I highly recommend this product! Although, I would opt for a larger size if you’re an intermediate dildo user.
Expert Pick njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo
Overall Rating
4.9/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.8/5
Based on 387 user reviews
Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.
Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Double-ended dildo made of 316-grade stainless steel
- Tight curve and two rounded ends in different sizes (1″ & 1.5″ in diameter)
- Weighs 1.51 lbs
- Comes in a storage/display box lined with pink satin.
Pros
- ✅ The firm and weighted steel provides intense internal stimulation
- ✅ Curved design helps target the g-spot and p-spot
- ✅ Great for temperature play
- ✅ Compatible with all lubes
Cons
- ❌ Too heavy for those with limited wrist or hand strength
- ❌ Expensive
Why I Chose It
I picked out the njoy Pure Wand as my expert pick because it’s an amazing double-ended dildo that’s surprisingly easy to grip and control. As our tester, Isabelle, says in her review: “The weight distribution and curve take all of the hard work out of getting that deep stimulation exactly where you want it, and you only have to apply minimal pressure to get some incredibly intense sensations.”
The combination of the weight, the firm steel, and that curved, bulbous design makes the njoy Pure Wand stand out among other dildos with handles: “The sensations I felt with the Pure Wand were quite unlike any other dildo I’ve used before.” That said, keep in mind that it gets slippery with lube!
As amazing as it is, it also comes with a price tag to match the luxurious aesthetics and quality of the toy. So, it might not be for everyone, but it very much deserves an honorable mention.
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Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Budget-Friendly | Best For Beginners | Best Vibrating Dildo | Best For Dual Stimulation | Best For Couples | Expert Pick |
| Overall score | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.8 / 5.0 from 12 users | 3.6 / 5.0 from 11 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 116 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 6 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 78 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 75 users | 5 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 387 users |
| Price | Affordable | Affordable | Moderate | Affordable | Pricey | Moderate | Moderate | Premium |
| Design | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | 20 / 100 | 20 / 100 | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | somewhat rumbly | somewhat rumbly | - | - |
| Length | 11 inches | 11 inches | 7 inches | 10.5 inches | 9 inches | 8.5 inches | - | 9 inches |
| Insertable length | 7 inches | 7 inches | 5 inches | 6.5 inches | 6,5 inches | 5 inches | 6.1 inches | 8 inches |
| Diameter | 1.75 inches | 1.75 inches | 1 inches | 1.5 inches | 1,8 inches | 1.5 inches | Pony: 1.53 inches, Dildo: 1.06 inches | Small end: 1 inch, Large end: 1.5 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Materials | Premium silicone | Premium silicone | Glass | Premium silicone | Silicone & ABS plastic | Silicone | Exterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic | 316-grade stainless steel |
| Storage Bag Included | No | No | Yes | No | No | Yes | Yes | Box |
| Colors Available | Amethyst | Onyx | Purple | Amethyst | Pink, Black, Amethyst | Pink, Blue | Black, Purple | Steel |
| Vibration speeds | - | - | - | - | 6 | 10 | - | - |
| Vibration patterns | - | - | - | - | 6 | 10 | - | - |
| Battery Life | - | - | - | - | 40-120 minutes minutes | 120 minutes | - | - |
| Rechargeable | - | - | - | - | Yes | Yes | - | - |
| Charging Time | - | - | - | - | 360-480 minutes minutes | 90 minutes | - | - |
| Travel Lock | - | - | - | - | Yes | Yes | - | - |
| App Controls | - | - | - | - | - | Yes | - | - |
Attach Your Own Dildo Handle
If you already found a dildo that you love, you can just buy a handle to attach to it! It might be more economic as you can attach it to a lot of different dildos instead of just having one dildo with a handle.
Just make sure to check whether or not your dildo is compatible with the handle attachment!
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Why You Should Buy a Dildo With a Handle
- Comfort – Dildos with handles are amazing for those who struggle to find a comfortable position while using a dildo. It’s great for those who get tired arms or hands while holding a flat base, or those who have mobility issues or limited hand strength. Handles enhance your grip and control over the dildo while ensuring your comfort.
- Use – The handle ad increased length of the dildo make it easier for you to target any orifice in different positions, even during solo play! Dildos with handles are accessible to all body types and thereby offer more versatility. The added length also allows you to explore depth play!
- Partner – Dildos with handles are super handy when you’re with a partner. They improve your control and stamina and make it a lot less likely that your hands cramp up or get tired during long sessions.
What to Think of When Buying Dildos With a Handle
- Shape – There are a few different handle shapes out there. Some look like handles (with finger ridges and a textured, grippy surface) and others double as an insertable shaft (like the beaded end of a glass dildo or a strapless strap-on), and some have an ergonomic design (like finger loops or wide bases that are easy to grip). Consider which shape fits your needs in terms of your preferred positions and angles in which you might be using the dildo.
- Material – Most dildos with hands are made of firmer materials like glass, metal, or firm silicone. These materials are non-porous, body-safe, long-lasting, and easy to clean. I always recommend opting for these types of materials.
- Price – You can find dildos with handles with vastly different price ranges. Consider your budget, of course, but the most important thing to keep in mind is how the design of the handle (and dildo, of course) will fit your preferred needs. Most dildos with handles are not super cheap but you can definitely find some that are reasonably priced, like the Gläs Purple Rain Dildo or the Tantus Goddess Handle.
Reviewed by:
Cassie Mørch