9 Best Sex Toys For Women
I’ve picked the very best sex toys for the women from the over 100 sex toys I’ve tried personally and the hundreds reviewed by our testers, so you can find your new bedside buddy with ease! I’ve included toys for all tastes and occasions from the most versatile bullet vibrator to a powerfully pleasing wand to and even my go-to G-spot dildo!
Test Winner4.8  Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 User Ratings: 4.5/5 Based on 80 user reviews | Runner Up4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.9/5 Reviewed by: Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings: 4.8/5 Based on 29 user reviews | Best on a Budget4.8 | Best for Beginners4.5 Overall Rating 4.5/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Oli OchoaUser Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 977 user reviews | Best Internal Toy5.0 Overall Rating 5.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.9/5 Based on 312 user reviews | Most Powerful4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 85.9 user reviews | Best Wearable4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings: 4.0/5 Based on 746 user reviews | Most Discreet 4.6 Overall Rating 4.6/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.8/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.4/5 Based on 321 user reviews | Best for Couples4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.4/5 Reviewed by: Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings: 4.3/5 Based on 351 user reviews |
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How We Test female sex toys
We’re a team of 329 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best female sex toys, our testers tried and reviewed 73 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre female sex toys didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1158 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.
Test Winner We-Vibe Tango X
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings:
4.5/5
Based on 80 user reviews
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Sleek ABS plastic body with lipstick style tip
- Three button controls
- Silicone grip
Pros
- ✅ Intense vibrations
- ✅ Very rumbly
- ✅ Discreet
- ✅ Travel-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Can't turn off instantly
- ❌ Heats up with longer use
- ❌ Can slide during use
Vibrations:
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Tango X felt to the reviewer.
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Tango X felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
Choosing the best sex toy for women was no easy feat, as we are all unique! However, after a lot of consideration I chose the We-Vibe Tango X because I really think it has something to offer most people! It’s got some of the best vibrations I’ve experienced in a smaller toy, it’s super versatile, and it’s affordable!
I actually waited a long time to get my hands on the We-Vibe Tango X, but I’m so happy I finally got one! Rachel reviewed it for us, and it’s still her all time favorite sex toy to this date!
My absolute favorite thing about the Tango X is it’s incredibly rumbly vibrations. On the lowest setting, it feels almost like a tapping more than a vibration and it doesn’t gets buzzy or numbing, like many other small vibes do.
Rachel really loved how the lipstick shaped tip “allows for incredibly precise stimulation on the point, while the flat side of the tip is great for broader massaging.”
She was also a big fan of the ABS plastic, as it “feels so smooth, never drags on the skin (even when you’re not using lube), and allows you to get really firm with your stimulation.” I also enjoy the sensation but found it made it slide around more, especially during partnered use, making it hard to direct the pinpoint stimulation.
Rachel loves the We-Vibe Tango X so much it’s her go to for both partnered and solo sex! I find myself reaching for mine when I want something easier and smaller than a wand!
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Runner Up Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5
Reviewed by:
Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings:
4.8/5
Based on 29 user reviews
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Suction stimulator with optional
- App-enabled
Pros
- ✅ Body-safe silicone body and mouth
- ✅ Air Pulse, Liquid Air and vibrations all in one!
- ✅ Easy to connect to the Satisfyer app
Cons
- ❌ Can feel a little jumpy
- ❌ Pretty loud, especially on higher settings
- ❌ Vibrations feel quite buzzy
Vibrations:
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
I gave the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation the runner up spot as it’s a fantastic clitoral suction toy with a lot of versatility. It’s also a fair bit cheaper than the clit suckers while still delivering some quality stimulation! Not to mention our tester, Rachel, was blown away by it, commenting “The new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 hits all of the marks for me, and has given me some absolutely spectacular orgasms!”
You might recognise this toy, as it’s previous version has become a somewhat iconic female sex toy, but this new version has some really great upgrades! The first is the ‘liquid air technology,’ which is a thin silicone cover that can sit over the mouth, creating a fluttering feeling.
Rachel, loved this addition and thought it “might actually be among the closest sensations to oral sex that a toy can produce.” She loved how it felt “like a soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure.”
Unlike the original, it also has vibrations. Rachel found them “pretty buzzy” but I like that you can control them separately, so if buzzy vibrations aren’t your thing you can just enjoy the suction stimulation!
Another great upgrade is the addition of the app controls! Rachel tried it out and found it was “very easy to connect” and she “didn’t experience the toy disconnecting at all,” which for a lower price toy is very impressive!
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Best on a Budget Dame Dip
Rating: Dame Dip was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: Dame Dip was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Dame Dip was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Dame Dip was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other female sex toys.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Ergonomic shape with curved tip
- Simple one-button control
Pros
- ✅ Comfortable to hold
- ✅ Luxury feel on a budget
- ✅ Travel-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Might not be strong enough for some
- ❌ No patterns
- ❌ No storage bag
Vibrations:
Rating: Dame Dip was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Dip felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Dame Dip was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Dip felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Dame Dip is the definition of affordable luxury! This aesthetic silicone vibrator is by far the best cheap vibrator I’ve come across!
Our reviewer, Edie, “absolutely love everything about the Dame Dip’s design” and was surprised that it’s “extremely affordable for the top-notch quality it presents.”
She was also happy to find “the vibrations are right in the middle, so not too buzzy, and the perfect amount of rumbly,” making it a real crowd pleaser!
Another big plus is that the “Dip is quiet enough not to wake the kids or disturb room mates.” I also think the Dame Dip makes for a great travel vibe as it’s small and has a travel lock!
Best for Beginners Maude Vibe
Overall Rating
4.5/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Oli OchoaUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 977 user reviews
Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Simple one-button control
- Three vibration speeds
Pros
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Attractive, non-intimidating design
- ✅ Ranges from very mild to moderately strong
Cons
- ❌ May be too basic for some
- ❌ Not fully submersible
- ❌ No vibration patterns
Vibrations:
Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Maude Vibe felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Maude Vibe felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
If I was starting my sex toy adventure all over again, I think the Maude Vibe would be the best introduction! It’s simple and non-intimidating whilst also being high-quality and beautiful to look at! It’s also a steal at under $50!
Our tester Oli thought the “Maude Vibe finds the perfect mix between basic controls and pleasure, offering an awesome vibrator for beginners.”
The Maude only has three set speeds, but in my opinion, this simplicity is exactly what you want in a starter toy!
When testing the toy, Oli found the “first setting is too mild” but once she tried the second and third levels, she “was surprised by their strength!” Having a very gentle first speed is great for beginners that might be more sensitive!
She also enjoy “the softness of the silicone covering over the firmness of the toy itself,” making it very comfortable to use.
Best Internal Toy njoy Pure Wand
Overall Rating
5.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.9/5
Based on 312 user reviews
Rating: njoy Pure Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: njoy Pure Wand was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: njoy Pure Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: njoy Pure Wand was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Two different sizes balls
- Curved for easy g-spot stimulation
- Weighted
Pros
- ✅ Fantastic for intense G-spot massage
- ✅ Can be heated or cooled
- ✅ Impeccable quality
- ✅ Beautiful presentation box
Cons
- ❌ Heavy
- ❌ Looks intimidating (but isn't, I promise)
Why I Chose It
You might be thinking I’m mad picking a hunk of metal as the best dildo for women, and I too was a little wary when I first got mine. But OH BOY that was soon replaced with wonder! This amazing steel dildo helped me unlock g-spot pleasure like never before! And I’m not alone in that, this dildo is a cult classic has become known as the squirting dildo, and for good reason!
The weight and curve of the Pure mean it nestles into the G-spot, providing a deep massage without needing to use a lot of effort. You can massage in circles or rock it back and forth and it just feels heavenly! G-spot vibrations never did it for me but this certainly did!
I was also surprised by how much I enjoyed the stainless steel. It’s so smooth and slides beautifully, and I love that it can be heated or cooled.
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Most Powerful Doxy Die Cast
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 85.9 user reviews
Rating: Doxy Die Cast was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: Doxy Die Cast was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Doxy Die Cast was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Doxy Die Cast was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Up t0 9000 rpm vibration power
- Mains-powered with 10 ft cord
- Broad silicone head
Pros
- ✅ 30% more powerful than Magic Wand Original
- ✅ Sleek aluminium-titanium body
- ✅ Weighted head for rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Light up buttons
Cons
- ❌ Loud
- ❌ Heavy
Vibrations:
Rating: Doxy Die Cast was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Doxy Die Cast felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Doxy Die Cast was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Doxy Die Cast felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
It took everything in my power not to put this as the test winner. From a very subjective point of view, I think the Doxy Die Cast is the greatest sex toy of all time. If I could have only one sex toy, this would be it without a doubt. The reason I didn’t put it as the test winner is that, being the most powerful wand vibrator there is, it’s just going to be too powerful for most women!
On the lowest setting, it rumbles unlike anything I’ve ever felt before and on the highest, it’s powerful enough to blast me through the back wall. If you want to be a sub to a sex toy, this is the one to go for! It’s definitely got BDE (big Dom energy). The weighted head really does make for some seriously rumbly vibrations.
All that power does come at a price though! This thing is loud! I personally don’t find it distracting during use. Trust me, you won’t be thinking about that! However, I wouldn’t want to use it with other people in the house. I’m pretty sure my neighbours can hear it through the walls. I just pray they think I’ve gotten really into late night DIY!
It’s also heavy! I don’t mind the weight, and actually enjoy it, but it’s worth keeping in mind, especially if you have any mobility issues.
I will also add that this is my go to for partner play as it’s super easy for my partner to use the broad head on me and we’ve even used it on him as well!
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Best Wearable Lovense Lush 3
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings:
4.0/5
Based on 746 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I advise it for advanced users; it provides greater complexity and depth.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Bulbed egg-shaped vibrator
- App-enabled for close and long-distance control
Pros
- ✅ Fun and reliable app
- ✅ 5 hour battery life
- ✅ Totally hands-free
- ✅ Great for public play
Cons
- ❌ Not a lot of clit stimulation
- ❌ Tail can feel a little awkward
Vibrations:
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Lush 3 has earned a place in the sex toy hall of fame, and I definitely think it deserves a spot! It’s easily one of the best app-controlled vibrators and one of the best wearable vibrators out there.
Kasia reviewed it for us and “had a blast using it” and loved using it “for foreplay, teasing, and fun in general.”
She loved that “the egg itself provides powerful vibrations, and it’s very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” This is great if, like me, you like to add a little pleasure to more mundane daily activities!
She was also impressed that “the egg’s vibrations are very powerful but quiet simultaneously.” I’ve worn the Lush 2 out in public without any fear of being found out!
The Lovense app is also a clear front-runner. Out of all the sex toy apps I’ve used, it has the best features and best connectivity!
The only thing that Kasia wasn’t impressed by was the clit vibrations which were weak and hard to place.
Most Discreet Lelo Dot
Overall Rating
4.6/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.4/5
Based on 321 user reviews
Rating: Lelo Dot was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: Lelo Dot was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lelo Dot was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Lelo Dot was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Flexible silicone tip
- Oscillates rather than vibrates
Pros
- ✅ Oscillations feel like fluttering
- ✅ Great for multiple orgasms
- ✅ Feels great on nipples as well
- ✅ Quietest vibe I own
Cons
- ❌ Not great if you require a lot of pressure
- ❌ Can feel tickly to some
Vibrations:
Rating: Lelo Dot was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lelo Dot felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lelo Dot was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lelo Dot felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Lelo Dot has become a surprise favorite for me as well as being the quietest vibrator I own! I’m often wary of sex toy companies bold claims about innovative new technology which ends up being the same old same old. However, this oscillator from Lelo truly feels amazing!
For me, the magic is in the tip being made of soft, flexible silicone rather than the more rigid tips in other similar toys, like the Zumio S. It creates such a lovely flickering sensation that’s a really nice change from vibrations or suction.
As well as being super quiet — I can’t hear it through a closed door and on the lower setting, I can barely hear it from under a duvet, it also has a discreet appearance. The teardrop shape looks very elegant and is super comfy to hold!
I find myself reaching for this vibrator late at night when I don’t want to disturb the peace or when I’m craving something a little gentler but still deeply satifying!
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Best for Couples We-Vibe Sync 2
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.4/5
Reviewed by:
Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 351 user reviews
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the female sex toy.
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Designed to be word during sex (PIV sex)
- Stimulates the clitoris and G-spot
- Remote or app control
Pros
- ✅ Flexible neck for a snug fit
- ✅ Stimulates partner's penis
- ✅ Can be used for solo or partner play
- ✅ Long distance capabilities
Cons
- ❌ Comes with a learning curve
- ❌ Higher settings get buzzy
Vibrations:
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Sync 2 felt to the reviewer.
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Sync 2 felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
Couples vibrators are such a fantastic invention for women, like myself, who crave hands-free clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex and the We-Vibe Sync 2 delivers the function, design and price!
Kasia found it came with a small learning curve but it was worth it, writing “once I found the right position I was obsessed with it!”
She was impressed by it’s versatility, commenting that it’s “a great toy not only for penetrative sex but also for solo action, public play, hands-free shower fun and so much more.”
One of the main concerns is whether it will stay in place, but Kasia found that “the shape makes it stay even with more intense thrusting motions.” Having tested the We-Vibe Chorus, which has the same design, myself, I can attest to this!
Kasia enjoyed the vibrations of the Sync 2, noting that they “aren’t overly powerful, but they are the perfect balance of rumbly and buzzy” which was just right for her.
Another big pro about the Sync is that it comes with both a physical remote and app controls. Personally, I don’t like using phones in the bedroom, so I like that it comes with the option of a physical remote too!
Kasia also isn’t the biggest fan of apps but found that “sometimes it can be really fun” and was so impressed she “would rate their app at 100/100. “
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Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Runner Up | Best on a Budget | Best for Beginners | Best Internal Toy | Most Powerful | Best Wearable | Most Discreet | Best for Couples |
| Overall score | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.5 / 5.0 from 80 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 29 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 154 users | 5 / 5.0 from 977 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 312 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 85.9 users | 4 / 5.0 from 746 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 321 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 351 users |
| Price | Affordable | Affordable | Cheap | Affordable | Premium | Premium | Pricey | Pricey | Pricey |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 97 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
| Sound | 20 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 20 / 100 | 60 / 100 | - | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 20 / 100 | 40 / 100 |
| Power | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | - | 100 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 60 / 100 |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | somewhat rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat rumbly | - | very rumbly | somewhat buzzy | somewhat buzzy | neither really buzzy nor rumbly |
| Vibration modes | 7 | - | 5 | - | - | 2 | Preset: 7 | - | Preset: 7 |
| Vibration patterns | 8 | 7 | - | None | None | - | 4 | 8 | - |
| Length | 3.5 inches | 6.5 inches | 5.3 inches | 4.8 inches | 9 inches | 14.5 inches | 8 inches | 6.5 inches | - |
| Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Splashproof | Yes | No | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Battery Life | 120 minutes | 120 minutes | 90 minutes | 150 minutes | - | - | 300 minutes | 120 minutes | Up to 120 minutes |
| Charging Time | 90 minutes | 240 minutes | 120 minutes | 120 minutes | - | - | 85 minutes | 120 minutes | 90 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes | Yes | Yes | USB | - | No — corded | Yes | Yes | USB |
| Materials | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Medical-grade silicone | Silicone | Stainless Steel | Silicone, aluminium-titanium alloy | Silicone | Silicone, ABS plastic | Silicone |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes | No | No | Yes | Yes | - | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Travel Lock | Yes | No | - | - | - | - | No | Yes | - |
| App Controls | No | Yes | No | No | No | No | - | - | Yes |
| Remote Controls | No | - | No | No | No | No | App-controlled | - | Yes |
| Vibration speeds | - | 5 | - | 3 | None | 8 | Preset: 3 | 8 | Preset: 3 |
| Clitoral suction | - | 11 modes | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Diameter | - | Mouth: 0.6 inches | - | 1.5 inches | 1.75 inches | 2.36 inches | 1.4 inches | - | - |
| Colors Available | - | Burgundy Red, Purple, Black | Periwinkle and Plum | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Insertable length | - | - | 4 inches | - | 8 inches | - | 3.5 inches | - | 3 inches |
| Width | - | - | 1.3 inches | - | - | - | - | 2.4 inches | - |
| Allergies | - | - | - | Phthalate-Free, Latex-Free | - | - | - | - | - |
| Weight | - | - | - | - | 1.51 lbs | - | - | - | - |
| Flexibility | - | - | - | - | Rigid | - | - | - | Flexible internal arm |
Sex Toy Kits for Women and People with a Vulva
If one sex toy just isn’t enough or you are looking for a gift for the sex toy loving vulva owner in your life, a sex toy kit is a great option! It also gives you the option to explore a few different sex toys to find out exactly what you like!
Fifty Shades of Grey X We-Vibe Come to Bed Couples Kit
The Come to Bed Couples Kit comes with the We-Vibe Tango X, which I chose as the overall best female sex toy, as well as a cute gem butt plug and blindfold!
Having reviewed the set myself, I would say the butt plug is a good size for those with a little experience of anal play already.
It all comes in a cute little bag, making it great for a sexy weekend away!
Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit
This beginners bondage kit comes with everything you need to dip your toes into bondage without throwing yourself in at the deep end!
With some a bed restraints system, a feather tickler, bullet vibrator, blindfold, sexy dice, and kama sutra playing cards, there’s a whole lot to try out!
Jason and his partner reviewed for us, and as self confessed “total noobs” to BDSM, they really enjoyed this introduction!
Je Joue The Naughty Gift Set
This lovely set is perfect for a more sensual time alone or with a partner! I reviewed it and loved the massage candle. It smelled great and left my skin super soft!
It also comes with the Je Joue Mimi which is a fantastic rumbly little pebble vibrator!
The truth or dare card game and silky restraints are nice added extras too!
How to Buy a Sex Toy for Your Wife, Girlfriend or Partner
Buying your partner a sex toy can be a great way to show you value their pleasure and add some excitement to your sex life, but it can also be risky. Some people aren’t comfortable with using sex toys and getting one as a surprise might embarrass them or make them feel pressured into trying something they don’t want to, so it’s super important to really think if it’s an appropriate gift.
When you shouldn't buy a sex toy for your partner
First of all, you should think about whether your primary reason for buying them a sex toy is for your pleasure or their pleasure. If the main reason is because it would turn you on to see them use it, unless you know explicitly that they would be up for it, I wouldn’t recommend buying them a sex toy.
Secondly, if you have talked about sex toys in the past and they seemed uncomfortable or expressed that they are not interested in them, do not buy them a sex toy!
Find out their likes/dislikes
Ask your partner what their likes/dislikes are in sex; do they prefer clitoris stimulation over penetration? Do they prefer anal stimulation coupled with G-spot stimulation? Do they prefer oral sex over PIV?
Whatever they like, there is a sex toy out there to suit them perfectly.
Choose a type of sex toy
If you and (or) your partner are looking for clitoral stimulation, then a bullet vibrators or wand vibrator is a great option!
If you’re looking for internal stimulation, you could consider a G-spot vibrator or a dildo.
Remember, if you are buying an internal toy for a partner, you need to know what size and style they are comfortable with!
For sexy sensations when out and about, wearable vibrators can really spice up your sex life; these are toys that are worn by the vagina owner, and controlled using an app or remote.
Last, and certainly not least, is the clitoral suction stimulator; if your wife/girlfriend loves oral sex, this type of toy simulates oral sex.
Consider shopping for a sex toy together
If you are buying your first sex toy together, I highly recommend skipping the surprise element all together and instead choosing the sex toy with your partner!
This can be a fun and sexy activity that helps you get to know their tastes better and brings more intimacy into the relationship!
Once you have a bit more experience and better understanding of their tastes, you will feel more comfortable surprising them with a sex toy!
Things to consider when buying the best female sex toy
Everyone is unique in their sexual tastes and what feels amazing to one person might not hit the spot for another! Here are few pointers to help you figure out which kind of sex toy is best for you!
Internal vs external stimulation
Internal sex toys, like egg vibrators, and g-spot vibrators can be used in the vagina or externally on the vulva and clitoris. They are often designed to target the extra sensitive areas of the A-spot or A-spot, which is deeper in the vagina. External toys, like bullet vibrators and clit suckers, should only be used externally. There’s also a whole world of exciting anal vibrators to explore!
Type of stimulation
You can get all kinds of different types of stimulation from female sex toys; vibrating, pulsing, thrusting, sucking, or a combination of them all! You can stimulate yourself manually or get an automatic toy that does the hard work for you!
If you usually enjoy direct clitoral touch, you might like something like a clitoral vibrator. However if you find direct touch irritating you might prefer a clitoral suction toy. These are said to feel more like oral sex, and while I wouldn’t say they are a 1:1 replica, they do have more of an oral sex feel to them!
If you are looking to mimic the sensation of penetrative sex, a dildo or vibrating dildo could be a better option.
There are also couple’s sex toys designed to add extra stimulation during partnered play!
Size
If you looking for an insertable sex toy and are totally new to sex toys, I recommend checking out these dildos for beginners.
Otherwise, think about what size you are can enjoy comfortably in terms of fingers or partner’s penis.
Materials
- What to look for – Toys made out of body-safe materials such as silicone, glass, or metal are a great option. They are non-porous and won’t harbor any germs or bacteria making them very easy to use and keep clean.
- What to avoid – Certain materials aren’t body-safe or are more likely to become dirty and unusable. Materials such as PVC, jelly, or soft plastic are porous and can contain harmful chemicals, so they are best avoided. TPR/TPE is non-toxic but still porous, so it can harbor germs and mold over time
Reviewed by:
Rachel Worthington