The 6 Best Lay On Vibrators
I’ve looked through all of the vibrators we’ve tested here at Bedbible to find the very best lay on options for anyone who loves a bump and grind! Our tester’s really put these vibrators through their paces to find out just how comfortable, powerful and practical they really are!
Test Winner 4.8  Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 User Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 1215 user reviews | Runner Up4.6 Overall Rating 4.6/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Sarah BaranUser Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 7 user reviews | Budget-Friendly4.6 Overall Rating 4.6/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Percival NocturneUser Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 1649 user reviews | Best for Beginners4.0 Overall Rating 4.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Vern HollandUser Ratings: 4.0/5 Based on 1 user reviews | Best w. Remote Control4.5 Overall Rating 4.5/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Sarah RiccioUser Ratings: 4.0/5 Based on 1 user reviews | Best Dual Stimulation4.7 Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.8/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 4.5/5 Based on 75 user reviews |
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| Pom Vibrator | Fun Factory Laya III | plusOne Massager | Tenga Iroha+ Kushi | VibePad 2 | Lovense Dolce |
| $95Shop Now | $109Shop Now | $29Shop Now | $110Shop Now | $159Shop Now | $140Shop Now |
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How We Test lay on vibrators
We’re a team of 335 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best lay on vibrators, our testers tried and reviewed 363 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre lay on vibrators didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1196 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.
Table of contents (10)
Test Winner Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Mariah AndersonUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 1215 user reviews
Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.
Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Flexible silicone
- Firm tip for more pinpoint stimulation
- 5 vibration speeds
Vibrations
Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame felt to the reviewer.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Flexes with your body
- ✅ Small, ergonomic design
- ✅ Fits between bodies for partner play
- ✅ Quiet
Cons
- ❌ Easy to knock and change settings
- ❌ Short battery life
Why I Chose It
“I love this toy and I personally cannot wait to have a long, and happy life together.”
Our tester, Mariah, was totally smitten with the Dame Pom, and I can see why! I picked it as the best lay on vibrator because of it’s totally flexible design, that allows the vibrator to form to the shape of your body.
She loved the cute “ergonomically-shaped” design, comparing it to a “marshmallow peep!” She was impressed for such a small vibe it still packs quite a punch in the vibration department.
Another big pro is that it’s also quiet so you can use it discreetly. Mariah found that even “the highest setting is still whisper quiet.”
Runner Up Fun Factory Laya III
Overall Rating
4.6/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Sarah BaranUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 7 user reviews
Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.
Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Curved, silicone vibrator
- Vibrates and taps
- Textured body
Vibrations
Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory Laya III felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory Laya III felt to the reviewer.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Texture adds more stimulation
- ✅ Easy controls
- ✅ Memory function that starts where you last left off
- ✅ Travel lock
Cons
- ❌ Same button for speeds and patterns
- ❌ Very long initial charge
Why I Chose It
“In one word: Amazing. Amazing for use in the shower (or pool), amazing for travel, amazing to use on yourself or your partner, simply amazing stimulation… Amazing!”
It’s clear our tester, Sarah, was impressed with the Laya III! She really loved the smooth curves, commenting that the best feature is the shape that is “is perfect to settle right up against the clit for direct stimulation” and how it sits “fit snugly against the body.”
The Laya has both vibrating and tapping stimulation, but even though she enjoyed the sensations, Sarah “couldn’t differentiate between the tapping and vibrating.” She did, however, like that “the smoothness verses the texture on the ends of the Laya III provided for some very enjoyable, yet different, sensations.”
A stand out feature of the Laya is that it has more adjustability in the settings as you can adjust the intensity of each pattern and even save your favorite so it automatically starts on it next time. While I wouldn’t go for this as a first vibrator, I recommend it for those who love having a lot of control.
Budget-Friendly plusOne Mini Massager
Overall Rating
4.6/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Percival NocturneUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 1649 user reviews
Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.
Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Curved silicone vibrator
- 10 vibration modes
Vibrations
Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of plusOne Mini Massager felt to the reviewer.
Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of plusOne Mini Massager felt to the reviewer.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Really cheap for a lay on vibrator
- ✅ Easy to use one-button controls
- ✅ Light indicates low battery
Cons
- ❌ Vibrations are more subtle
- ❌ No flexibility
Why I Chose It
I was seriously impressed that our reviewer, Percival, has had this vibrator for over 5 years and still loves it! If that’s not quality on a budget, I have no idea what is!
They “love how easy and intuitive it is to use” and said they still find themselves “coming back to it, again and again” even after owning it for so long!
They were super impressed with the quality and durability, even though the vibrator “has been dropped, flung, slammed, squeezed, shoved, jostled, soaked, and shook,” it’s still going strong!
Although Percival said “it isn’t the strongest vibe out there,” they really enjoy using it with during partnered sex or with other toys.
Best for Beginners Tenga Iroha+ Kushi
Overall Rating
4.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Vern HollandUser Ratings:
4.0/5
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.
Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Squishy textured silicone
- Tapered tip for pinpoint stimulation
- 5 vibrations speeds and 3 patterns
Vibrations
Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tenga Iroha+ Kushi felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tenga Iroha+ Kushi felt to the reviewer.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Quiet
- ✅ Discreet design
- ✅ Easy to use single button control
Cons
- ❌ Vibrations aren't super strong
- ❌ Tricky to clean in grooves
Why I Chose It
I picked the Kushi as the best lay on vibrator for beginners because it has such a cute and totally unitimidating design! It’s also not got super strong vibrations, so it won’t be overwhelming.
Vern tried it out for us, and as someone with more vibrator experience, they weren’t blown away with the vibrations, “they still really love[d] the Tenga Iroha+ Kushi.”
They particularly “love the design of this toy” and it’s “cutesie beach shell” vibes. They couldn’t “get over how soft and squishy the Iroha+ Kushi is,” commenting that it “feels like a dream.” I think this softness, along with the light textural details makes this perfect for lying on and grinding against!
Another great feature for beginners is that it’s super easy to use! Vern enjoyed that the “simplistic one-button system” made it easy to flick through the different settings.
Best w. Remote Control VibePad 2
Overall Rating
4.5/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Sarah RiccioUser Ratings:
4.0/5
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.
Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Vibrations and flickering tongue
- Warming function
- Remote control
Vibrations
Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of VibePad 2 felt to the reviewer.
Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of VibePad 2 felt to the reviewer.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Great for grinding
- ✅ Can be placed on any surface
- ✅ Actually mimics oral sex/ face sitting
Cons
- ❌ Learning curve to find correct position
Why I Chose It
I think the VibePad 2 has a really clever design, and I’m a big fan of it’s versatility and that you can put it on any surface and sit or lie on it!
Sarah reviewed it for us and loved it so much that it “earned its place as one of [her] all-time favorite sex toys.” She loved that she could “enjoy vibration across my entire vulva and have my clitoris warmed up and licked simultaneously” and described the sensation as “wildly pleasurable!”
She thought that the “warming feature is genius” and loved the sensitivity and arousal it added. The vibrations were “surprisingly powerful” but still “nice and quiet.”
Best Dual Stimulation Lovense Dolce
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.5/5
Based on 75 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.
Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Two motors for internal and external stimulation
- App-controls with long-distance control capabilities
- Adjustable neck
Vibrations
Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Dolce felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Dolce felt to the reviewer.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Powerful internal and external vibes
- ✅ Bulbous internal arm
- ✅ Great app features
Cons
- ❌ Only available in hot pink
- ❌ Bluetooth can lose connection
Why I Chose It
While the Lovense Dolce isn’t marketed specifically as lay on vibrator, I think it’s a great vibrator for when you’re also craving some internal stimulation as well!
Our tester, Cassie, was almost ready to give up on finding dual stimulation vibration but found the adjustability of the Dolce really hit the spot…both of them!
She really appreciated that the adjustable “mechanism is quite firm, so once you’ve found an angle that works for you, that baby will stay in place.” It made it so much easier to “achieve a perfectly blended orgasm.” This also makes it a great lay on vibrator as you can find an angle that’s comfortable for you while lying on your front.
She was also a fan of “the rumbly quality of the vibrations” and reported that “although powerful, the Dolce is not particularly noisy!”
The other big feature of the Dolce is the app features. Cassie “loved the interactive feature, and had a blast letting my partner control my stimulation.”
Having used multiple Lovense toys myself, I stand by that the Lovense app is the best for connectivity and fun features! It’s the one I would recommend time and time again for any long distance play.
Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Runner Up | Budget-Friendly | Best for Beginners | Best w. Remote Control | Best Dual Stimulation |
| Overall score | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.7 / 5.0 from 1215 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 7 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 1649 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 75 users |
| Price | Pricey | Pricey | Cheap | Pricey | Moderate | Moderate |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Sound | 20 / 100 | 20 / 100 | 20 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 |
| Power | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | somewhat rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat rumbly | very rumbly |
| Vibration patterns | 5 | 3 | - | 3 | 7 | 7 |
| Vibration speeds | 5 | 7 | - | 5 | - | - |
| Length | 3.5 inches | 4.3 inches | 3.74 inches | 4.01 inches | 11.42 inches | - |
| Width | 4.4 inches | 1.6 inches | 1.57 inches | 1.96 inches | 8.15 inches | - |
| Materials | Medical-grade silicone | Silicone | Body-safe silicone | Silicone, TPU | Silicone | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Battery Life | At least 60 minutes | 40 to 120 minutes | - | 60 minutes | 60 minutes | 120 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | USB |
| Charging Time | 120 minutes | Initial charge: (6-7 hours) 360-420 minutes | 120-180 minutes | 120 minutes | 120 minutes | 60 minutes |
| Travel Lock | Yes | Yes | No | No | - | - |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes | No | Yes | No | - | Yes |
| Colors Available | Plum, Ice | Soft Violet, Sage Green | Teal or light blue | Beige, Pink | Purple | Hot pink |
| Vibration modes | - | - | 10 | - | 7 | - |
| Remote Controls | - | - | No | No | Yes, Handheld Remote | App-controlled |
| Weight | - | - | - | - | 0.9 lbs | - |
| Insertable length | - | - | - | - | - | 3 inches |
| Adjustable | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
If you are looking for
- The most powerful lay on vibrator, I recommend the Dame Pom, VibePad 2 or the Lovense Dolce.
- The quietest lay on vibrator, check out the Dame Pom or the Fun Factory Laya III.
- An app controlled lay on vibrator, I recommend the Lovense Dolce.
- A soft, squishy lay on vibrator, the Iroha Kushi is the way to go!
Non-Vibrating Silicone Grinders
For those times when you went a little manual stimulation rather than vibrations why not try out one of these non-vibrating grinders?
Uberrime LaBae Grinder
The LaBae is made from deliciously soft silicone, with subtle bumps to grind against.
It’s shaped like vulva and comes in a dreamy and playful colorways!
Reviewed by:
Mariah Anderson