6 Best Metal Dildos in Stainless Steel

Why I Chose It

The njoy Pure Wand is an iconic sex toy that definitely lives up to it’s status! I got my hands on the njoy Pure Wand relatively early on in my sex toy reviewing career and it blew my mind!

You might be wondering it has a slightly lower score than some others in the review even though it’s the the test winner, but it’s simple because it has so many more user reviews — hundreds compared to the others which have fewer than 10. There’s no doubt in my mind that this is the best metal dildo there is!

Using the Pure Wand was a real G-spot awakening for me. I loved how deeply I could massage my G-spot because of the intense curve, rigidity, and weightiness of the wand. It was a sensation quite unlike I had been able to get with silicone dildos. I would absolutely recommend the Pure Wand to anyone looking for the best metal G-spot dildo!

I will say the times I’ve enjoyed the Pure Wand most are when it’s been used on me by a partner, because it is heavy and can take quite a lot of work, but I still enjoy using it myself from time to time! The only slight downside is that I find it can catch on my pubic bone sometimes, but that’s more of a user error than a flaw with the dildo.

The real icing on the cake for this beautiful metal dildo is the almost regal presentation box it comes in, with a silky pink pillow to place it on!

Why I Chose It

Metal dildos can look quite intimidating, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be beginner-friendly! I love that the Le Wand Bow delivers all the amazing benefits of the other metal dildos on the market in a smaller size.

Our tester, Rachel, was “blown away” by just how good the Bow felt. She really enjoyed having the smaller side to start with as it was less intimidating but really enjoyed that “the rounder end also felt like it was making much more contact with all the right spots inside”

She found it was “great both for standard in-and-out thrusting, as well as a rocking motion” and appreciated that you“don’t have to exert a lot of force to get a lot of stimulation from it.”

She wasn’t such a fan of the ridging as they could be a bit irritating, especially during more vigorous thrusting, so that’s something to keep in mind if you are very sensitive to textures.

If I were choosing between the Bow and other metal dildos, I would go for the Bow if I wanted a small metal dildo for vaginal play. However, I would say the intense curve of the Pure Wand or Hoop are better for more intense G-spot stimulation and have the benefit of being anal safe.

Why I Chose It

The Lovehoney Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo is a perfect choice for those looking for a stainless steel dildo on a budget. It delivers the high-end weight feel without breaking the bank! I particularly liked the beaded design because it delivers extra stimulation during penetrative play, but it can be very useful for external play as well. I appreciate that it’s curved and has a larger bead on the bottom; it provides better grip and better control over the whole experience. Plus, some might want to use it as a double-ended dildo!

Our tester, Lucy, who reviewed this toy for us, enjoyed the sensation the Lovehoney Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo gave her. She pointed out that as a metal sex toy beginner, the weight felt “slightly daunting,” but once she got the hang of it, she said that the extra weight “made for a brilliant experience, and the weight added to the sensation and versatility.”

As a sex expert, I must admit that for such an attractive price, this metal dildo offers a lot of versatility to your play, and its quality and design are easily comparable to high-end metal sex toy brands. From a more practical point of view, think that the Lovehoney Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo will be a great option for those looking for a reliable dildo for vaginal penetration. Also, more experienced users will also appreciate the beaded design for anal play.

Why I Chose It

I chose the njoy Fun Wand as the best metal dildo for anal because of it’s slimmer, beaded design that’s similar to anal beads. The other end also has single bulb that’s fantastic for g-spot or prostate massage!

Kasia reviewed the Fun Wand and commented that the “metal shaft’s weight and firmness felt amazing”

Her favorite side was the single bulbous tip, as “it worked wonders on [her] G-spot.” She also “enjoyed the beads, even though the anal play is not [her] favorite thing”

And luckily for us, Kasia also let her partner try it out to get a penis owners perspective, reporting that “He also really enjoyed the bulbous end” for prostate stimulation and he was even “close to finishing from penetration only.”

Given Kasia and her partner’s experience with the Fun Wand, I would say this is a great all round metal dildo. I would go for this over other options if I wanted more precise stimulation or some interesting textural stimulation.

Why I Chose It

As much as the Pure Wand will always be my first love when it comes to metal dildos, the Le Wand Arch fills a niche with it’s thicker, bulbous tip.

Unlike the Pure Wand that has a ball and then a thin shaft, the Arch is thick and bulbous, creating a wonderfully full feeling. It’s much closer to the feel of penetrative sex, only it’s the got the wonderful weightiness and glide of a metal dildo.

Although, the Arch is double ended, I found that much preferred the thicker end to the flat tip. That being said, I can see it being enjoyable for g-spot or A-spot massage.

The one downside to all that girth is that it does make the Arch heavier than most similar metal dildos on the market. The added weight isn’t all bad though, as in some positions it means gravity really gives you a helping hand, almost pulling the dildo back inside you.

Why I Chose It

I won’t lie, my jaw dropped when I saw the njoy Eleven. It is big and it is dominating! Our tester, Cassie, described it as “elegant, luxurious, sturdy, and just pretty darn impressive,” and I think that is the perfect description!

She made sure to take her time with this massive metal dildo, but was actually “pleasantly surprised at how easy it was to use the smaller end of the toy.”

She found that the bigger 2-inch end was a bit more of a challenge, but once inserted, “It provided a really nice feeling of being stretched out.” 

As well as the intense sensations that the Eleven offers, I think a big part of the appeal is psychological, with the idea of being completely full and pushed to your limits being arousing for many people. Cassie and her partner certainly found that they were “both a bit excited to test [her] limits.”

Based on the price and size of the Eleven, I wouldn’t recommend it to most people unless you are looking for the most advanced metal dildo on the market.