3 Best Over Door Restraints
Bondage play doesn’t have to be expensive or require bulky equipment. Over-the-door gear like simple handcuffs or more elaborate restraints offer an affordable way to explore bondage, whether it’s partial or full-body. All you need is a door, making these restraints perfect for non-permanent setups at home or for spicing things up while traveling. Curious about the best options? Read on! I’ve prepared a roundup of 7 best over door restraints that are easy-to-use, affordable and super comfortable!
Test Winner5.0  Overall Rating 5.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.9/5 User Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 13 user reviews | Best for Beginners 5.0 Overall Rating 5.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Cierra AddingtonUser Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 6 user reviews | Budget Friendly 4.2 Overall Rating 4.2/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 4.3/5 Based on 4 user reviews |
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How We Test over door restraints
We’re a team of 324 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best over door restraints, our testers tried and reviewed 207 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre over door restraints didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1089 toys over the past 6 years.
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Finding the Right Type of Over-The-Door Restraints for You
There are a few different factors you should consider when trying to find the perfect set of over door restraints. I suggest starting with your intended use:
Heavy duty: If you are looking for restraints that are going to hold a decent weight or be sturdy enough for the type of sex you are planning to have, make sure the straps are thick and that the cuffs are strong enough to hold your wrists.
Level of security: Are you more into soft or hard BDSM? If you are into softer, then cuffs that use velcro should do just fine, otherwise you would be better off choosing buckle cuffs or even cuffs that padlock close.
Visual design: How the cuffs look may be your biggest turn on, of which you then should pick coloured or well designed cuffs – perhaps a mix of leather and metal to remain on theme with the BDSM look.
Test Winner DOMINIX Deluxe Over the Door Cross Restraints
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Over the Door Cross Restraints was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the over door restraint.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Over the Door Cross Restraints was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Over the Door Cross Restraints was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Over the Door Cross Restraints was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Full body restraint – for arms and legs
- Adjustable length restraints with detachable cuffs
- Mix of leather and metal materials (contains nickel)
Pros
- ✅ Very durable
- ✅ Multi-purpose cuffs
- ✅ Delivers on all promises
Cons
- ❌ Material is not soft
- ❌ Nothing extra in the box
- ❌ Can make hands fall asleep easily
- ❌ Contains nickel
Why I Chose It
This is one of the most exciting restraint kits I have seen; a full door restraint kit with both wrist and ankle restraints! There is so much I love about this kit – I firstly love the aesthetics of it – the leather look with the metal buckles is a recognisable BDSM pairing. I next love the way they are buckled cuffs, that can be tightened and then more securely closed, rather than velcro. It makes it more intense and also secure, knowing that they are unlikely to unbuckle and set me loose. Lastly, I love how the cuffs can be unclipped and and placed on different loops, for a difference in height and distance. This is great for changing the position of the arms and also for shorter people that cannot reach the top of the door!
When using a whole body restraint kit like this, I want to know that it is secure and won’t unbuckle or release my ankles/wrists mid session! That is why the metal clasps and metal buckle is my favourite feature of this set. Our tester Dani loved it as much as I did – “this product will be a must for your bedroom playtime!”
The only downside to this toy is that it contains nickel, of which could be an allergy concern for some people – make sure to double check you’re okay with nickel interaction! Also, the leather cuffs are not the most comfortable and don’t have any cushioning around them, so just bare that in mind if you are planning on using them for an extended length of time.
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Best for Beginners Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints
Overall Rating
5.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Cierra AddingtonUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 6 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the over door restraint.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Large padded cuffs
- Latex bars to hold restraints behind door
- Adjustable length cuffs
Pros
- ✅ Super comfortable
- ✅ Perfect for light bondage
- ✅ Durable
- ✅ Stays in place
Cons
- ❌ Not the easiest to adjust
- ❌ Not designed to bear weight
Why I Chose It
The Over-the-Door Restraints from Bondage Boutique is the easiest set of cuffs you could possibly find. They are comfortable, affordable, and 100% beginner-friendly. They are made with soft polyester and padded for extra comfort, plus I really like the velcro on the cuffs. It means no matter if you’re just dipping your toes into the whole BDSM vibe or you’re already deep into it, these cuffs feel great. They’re soft, they’re secure, and they don’t mess around. Honestly, it’s the simplicity, and affordability that makes these restraints a solid pick for me.
I think those who want to dip their toes in bondage play will appreciate the use of polyester and velcro for extra comfort. Yet, if you are into a more intense BDSM set of cuffs, I would certainly opt for buckle straps rather than velcro straps, possibly even straps that clock with a padlock! I would personally prefer a sexier, more heavy-duty design, but I think it looks nice for such an affordable price. One of my favourite features about these cuffs is that they can be unbuckled and released, so that they can be used with other cuffs on bed restraints, for example.
Our tester Cierra had no complaints, saying “The cuffs are my favorite part, since they are soft, strong, and can be used with other toys.” I think what makes these my Beginner Friendly pick is how quick and easy they are to use, from the moment they are taken out of the packaging, to being used in full swing. Simple strap them to your wrists, throw the weights over the door, close the door and have fun! They are also adjustable in length, so if you’re too short, just make them longer! No need to be dangerously standing on a stool or anything…
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Budget Friendly Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs
Overall Rating
4.2/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 4 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the over door restraint.
Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Non-adjustable cuff lengths
- Metal bars to hold cuffs in place
- Soft but sturdy cuffs
Pros
- ✅ Nickel-free metal hardware
- ✅ Adjustable placement
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Soft velboa-fabric feels super comfortable
- ✅ Machine washable
- ✅ Transport-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Plastic door barbells
- ❌ Height is not adjustable
- ❌ Cuffs cannot be removed for independent use
- ❌ Lower quality materials
Why I Chose It
These Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs are relatively plain and simple, hence why they are the cuff set that are my budget option! Each cuff has its’ own strap and barbell, which can be placed over the top of the door and used to put your sub in their place. The barbells on these cuffs are plastic, which shouldn’t be much of an issue (as they’re not intended to support weight). However, it does mean that these over the door restraints lack the more premium feeling compared to wooden or metal barbells.
Still, that’s a very minor complaint. Overall, these cuffs are a simple and convenient solution for over the door bondage on the go. If you have $30 and want to experiment, these are an excellent option! This design allows the wearer to decide how far their arms will be spread and therefore be fairly comfortable (or, at least, as comfortable as you want them to be!). The length of the straps cannot be adjusted, but the tightness of the cuffs themselves is easily customizable with the velcro fastening.
Ideal for both beginner and intermediate users, the soft fabric provides some cushiony-y comfort during your kinky session! I think the velcro fastening and the soft cuffs make them super approachable for all levels of experience. Our tester Cassie said “I love that they’re super easy to use, can be moderately adjusted in terms of placement, and are a very affordable option!”
Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Best for Beginners | Budget Friendly |
| Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.9 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 5 / 5.0 from 13 users | 5 / 5.0 from 6 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 4 users |
| Price | Moderate | Affordable | Affordable |
| Design | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
| Quality | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 70 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - |
| Length | Straps: 100 inches, Wrist Cuffs: 12.5 inches, Ankle Cuffs: 17 inches | Wrist cuff: 9.5 inches inches | Length of strap when secured in the door: 8.5 inches |
| Diameter | Wrist Cuffs: 8.25 inches, Ankle Cuffs: 11.5 inches | - | - |
| Adjustable | Yes, Straps adjustable from 53 to 105 inches | Yes, up to 8 inches | No |
| Fastening | Buckles, Carabiner Clips | Velcro | Velcro |
| Materials | Leather, Metal | Polyester, hard plastic, Metal, PVC, Latex | Velboa fabric, polypropylene webbing, nickel-free metal hardware, and plastic |
| Waterproof | No | - | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | No | No | - |
| Allergies | Contains Nickel | - | - |
| Colors Available | Black | Black | - |
Experience Sensational Suspension with Over The Door Sex Swings!
As I’ve mentioned multiple times, the restraints listed above aren’t designed to support weight. But what if you want a way to suspend your partner from the door? Well, if that’s the case, then you should check out these over-the-door sex swings instead!
Soft Over-The-Door Sex Swing
Using the same easy-to-set-up door barbell design as the cuffs, this sex swing conveniently mounts to the door in under a minute. Adjustable, cushioned, and made from strong nylon, this sex swing provides the thigh support you’ll need for your next sexy escapade!
Special Edition Door Jam Sex Sling
The previous sex swing only offered hip support: this swing has three supports (which gives you a few more options!). Whether you want to use it alone with toys or with your partner, this swing can turn your doorframe into a sexual playground!
Scandal Over The Door Swing
Designed with the same faux snakeskin as the Scandal cuffs shown above, this swing is fully adjustable, easy to use, and complete with both arm and thigh straps for over-the-door fun!
Do You Prefer Under-the-Bed to Over-the-Door?
Perhaps you don’t trust your door, or maybe the possibility of making noise simply isn’t worth the risk. Regardless of the reason, you don’t want to use your door: are there other options? Of course, there are… so keep reading!
Under the Bed Restraint System
Designed to go under your mattress, this Sportsheets the Bed Restraint System will restrain your partner to the mattress by their wrists and ankles. Kinky bondage has never been this convenient!
Want to Make your Own Over The Door Restraints at Home?
Having straps (or a swing) is enough to get you going, but having these accessories can help you really take things to the next level!
Sportsheets Saffron Flogger
Vegan-friendly but still effective, this faux leather flogger can deliver everything from a light tickle to a hearty thwack: you decide the punishment!
Fifty Shades Freed All Sensation Clitoris and Nipple Clamps
Using nipple clamps on a partner is one surefire way to drive them wild. But with Fifty Shades Freed All Sensation , you can clamp their nipples and clit at the same time (connected by a single chain!).
Sportsheets Saffron Breathable Ball Gag
Is your sub making too much noise? Well then, you’ll need a way to shut them up! Fortunately, this silicone ball gag is not only a classic choice, but an effective solution as well.
Comparing The Best Over the Door Restraints
Highest Ratings
Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints: With a perfect Bedbible rating of 5.0/5.0, these restraints top the chart in user satisfaction. They also have a high design score of 90 / 100, making them a great choice for those who value simple, yet classy bondage accessories.
Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs: Close behind with a Bedbible rating of 4.9/5.0, users highly praise these cuffs for their functionality and ease of use, indicating a near-universal appeal.
Best Quality
Faux Over-the-Door Cuffs and Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints: Both boast the highest quality scores of 95/100, reflecting superior craftsmanship, durability, and materials. This tie makes them the best options for users who prioritize premium build and longevity in their BDSM gear.
Materials overview
Leather Choices: Faux and genuine leather in Faux Over-the-Door and B&W Door Kit highlight luxury and durability.
Polyester Mix: Over The Door, Sportsheets, and Bondage Boutique mix polyester, metal, and plastic for durability and comfort.
Soft Fabric: OTD Cross uses Velboa for comfort-focused users.
Nylon: Purple Reins opts for functional, allergy-friendly nylon.
Want to Make Your Own Over The Door Restraints at Home?
It’s possible to make your own over the door restraints at home, though it may not be worth the effort. Still, if you’re determined, I suggest gathering a few different materials. You’ll need—at minimum—some nylon webbing, D-rings, and rope. Using these items, you could make basic, minimalist restraints.
However, if you wanted to make something a bit more similar to the commercial products, you’d likely also want to pick up some tubing (to use as the door barbells). I’d suggest also picking up some fabric to wrap the barbells in, as this will reduce any potential noise.
Although it will take a bit, with a bit of creativity, it is possible to make your own over the door restraints at home!
We do not recommend making your own sex toys and always recommend that you purchase purpose-made sex toys from a reputable shop. We are in no way responsible for any harm caused due to the use or sharing of these DIYs. You are 100% responsible for the outcome should you choose to make your own sex toys.
Reviewed by:
Dani