7 Best Sex Pillows and Wedges

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

On my quest to transform my bedroom into a sexy soft play area, I have tried out a fair few sex pillows! Using my own experience and reviews from our tester team, I’ve carefully selected the very best sex pillows out there. I think the Liberator Wedge is by far the best all-rounder, but I’m also a massive fan of the Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo!

Test Winner

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 436 user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Kiki Hall

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Budget-Friendly

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Kathy Butler

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 54 user reviews

Best for Bondage

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 161 user reviews

Smallest

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 183 user reviews

Best Toy Mounts

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 140 user reviews

Most Versatile

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 86 user reviews

Liberator WedgeWhipsmart Love Cushion DOMINIX Deluxe WedgeLiberator Black Label WedgeLiberator JazLiberator BonBonLiberator Flip Ramp
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  • Increased G-spot stimulation
  • Holds its shape during use
  • Great for oral sex
  • Can be used in different positions
  • Pricey
  • Cover is a little slippery
  • Holds shape well
  • Soft cover
  • Can be used with or without cuffs
  • Not fully waterproof
  • Handcuffs not the highest quality
  • Cuffs are too big for wrist restraint
  • Doesn't collapse
  • Soft cover
  • Can be used in many different positions
  • Foam is a little rigid
  • No waterproof lining
  • Suitable for use in lots of positions
  • Pillows can be use together or separately
  • Super comfortable restraints and eye mask
  • Pricey
  • Takes up a lot oof space
  • Restraints points aren't super strong
  • Travel-friendly
  • Easy to manoeuvre during sex
  • Waterproof
  • Could be too small
  • Fabric is a little slippery
  • Can be used with a dildo or vibrator
  • Great for solo or couples play
  • Comfortable to ride
  • Size won't suit those who are particularly tall or short
  • Some toys aren't long enough
  • Difficult to access toy's buttons
  • Can be stored discreetly
  • Supports the hole body
  • Can be used in multiple positions
  • Might not be great for much larger bodies
  • Takes up a lot of space

How We Test sex pillows

We’re a team of 335 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best sex pillows, our testers tried and reviewed 82 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre sex pillows didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1194 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
Our Rating System Explained

Test Winner Liberator Wedge

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 436 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Liberator Wedge was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex pillow.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Liberator Wedge was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Liberator Wedge was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • High-density foam
  • Moisture resistant lining
  • Machine washable cover

Specifications

Pros

  • Increased G-spot stimulation
  • Holds its shape during use
  • Great for oral sex
  • Can be used in different positions

Cons

  • Pricey
  • Cover is a little slippery

Why I Chose It

The Liberator Wedge “totally changed the game” for our sex toy expert Rachel and both her and her partner “could feel an immediate difference.”

To me, the Liberator Wedge is the quintessential sex wedge and an essential for anyone who loves good old missionary but craves more G-spot stimulation. I chose it as the test winner because it’s one of the classics. It’s quite simple and small compared to all the other sex pillows, but it has that perfect angle and the right amount of support that enhances the pleasure.  From my experience, sex wedges have the perfect angle to provide deeper and more comfortable G-spot stimulation. Still, they come in handy for all kinds of penetrative play, anal as well.  Although it’s hard to put your finger on the feeling, Rachel found that “the penetration felt deeper and much more satisfying.”

The only small issue she ran into was that although the soft velvety material felt lovely, it did cause her to slide down and need to reposition now and again.

I’m a massive fan of Liberator’s sex pillows, and love that they come with moisture-proof linings to protect the foam and machine-washable covers. Sexy and practical!

Best for Beginners Whipsmart Love Cushion

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Kiki Hall

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

50/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Whipsmart Love Cushion was rated 50 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex pillow.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Whipsmart Love Cushion was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

50/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Whipsmart Love Cushion was rated 50 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Heart shaped sex wedge
  • 2 velcro cuffs
  • Moisture-proof and machine-washable cover

Specifications

Pros

  • Holds shape well
  • Soft cover
  • Can be used with or without cuffs

Cons

  • Not fully waterproof
  • Handcuffs not the highest quality
  • Cuffs are too big for wrist restraint

Why I Chose It

I chose the WhipSmart Love Cushion as the best for beginners, as I think the cute heart design makes it very approachable and it’s cheaper than the Liberator range.

Kiki tested it out for us and found this sex pillow “really does perfectly angle your pelvis for all kinds of fun.” She really liked the overall construction, commenting that the pillow is “very sturdy; the foam doesn’t collapse under weight, but it also wasn’t too hard.”

She also “love[d] the restraint element to this as well,” although she was a little disappointed that the cuffs weren’t the most comfortable and only really worked as ankle restraints due to the size. I think the restraints are a fun addition and a good choice for those looking to dip their toes into bondage play. For more advanced users who want a sex pillow specifically for bondage, I would opt for something stronger, like the Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo.

As a sex toy expert, I can definitely recommend the WhipSmart Love Cushion for beginners or those looking for a cute and simple sex pillow to use during sex. I see it as a good addition for penetrative or oral sex, and the added restraints are going to add some kinky spice to your play. But I don’t think it’s a good choice for those who require a lot of extra body support or have mobility issues.

Best Budget-Friendly DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge

4.4/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Kathy Butler

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 54 user reviews

75/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex pillow.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Firm foam
  • Loops for attaching restraints
  • Removable, washable cover

Specifications

Pros

  • Doesn't collapse
  • Soft cover
  • Can be used in many different positions

Cons

  • Foam is a little rigid
  • No waterproof lining

Why I Chose It

While the Dominix Deluxe Sex Position Wedge isn’t super cheap, it’s still cheaper than the Liberator Wedge, which is the most similar in terms of size and shape! Unfortunately, most quality foam sex pillows just aren’t that cheap!

The Dominix Deluxe Sex Position Wedge is also one of the firmer sex pillows in the review. This does mean that it holds its shape very well, but our tester, Kathy, found it a little firm for her tastes. However, aside from that, she thought it was “a great toy for spicing up your sex positions!” She loved the support that it added in doggy and how it allowed her to “stay in position for ages.” She also noted that the added loops make it a “good product if you want to ‘dip your toes’ into the world of BDSM,” but you will have to provide your restraints.

I think the Dominix Deluxe Sex Position Wedge is a wonderful option if you want a classic sex wedge on a budget or a wider sex pillow for a couple’s play. The design, specifically the angle, is perfect for penetrative play, as it allows for deeper and more comfortable G-spot or P-spot stimulation.

Best for Bondage Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 161 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex pillow.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Large ramp and medium size wedge
  • Comes with 4 padded restraints
  • Multiple attachment points for restraints
  • Moisture-resistant lining and machine washable covers

Specifications

Pros

  • Suitable for use in lots of positions
  • Pillows can be use together or separately
  • Super comfortable restraints and eye mask

Cons

  • Pricey
  • Takes up a lot oof space
  • Restraints points aren't super strong

Why I Chose It

I am absolutely in love with the Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo and either myself or my partner reach for one or both of this amazing sex pillows on a regular basis. Just using one under my hips makes a whole world of difference during penetrative sex!

As a sex toy expert, I specifically appreciate the versatility of this piece. You can really play around with both wedges, and the possibilities for trying out different sex positions are endless. I was pleasantly surprised that the pillows held together quite well and didn’t just slide off each other.

My favorite way to use the set is with the bigger ramp under the hips for more elevation and the smaller wedge to prop up my head, so I don’t feel like I’m lying upside down. Me and my boyfriend find this position works fantastic for oral for both of us, as the added pelvic height gives better access and makes it easier on the neck.

It’s super fun to add in the restraints and I found them super comfy! They clip on with plastic clips but there’s also metal D-rings if you want to use your own. They are pretty sturdy as well, so I can highly recommend them as a sex pillow for bondage play! 

I also have to mention that the blindfolded included is the best I have ever come across! It has a padded strip on the bottom that makes it super comfy and really blocks out the light!

Smallest Liberator Jaz

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 183 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Liberator Jaz was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex pillow.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Liberator Jaz was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

60/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Liberator Jaz was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Compact size
  • Moisture-resistant liner
  • Machine-washable velvish cover

Specifications

Pros

  • Travel-friendly
  • Easy to manoeuvre during sex
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • Could be too small
  • Fabric is a little slippery

Why I Chose It

The Jaz was my first sex pillow and even though I tend to use the Wedge Ramp Combo more these days, I still think it’s a great pillow if you are tight on space or want a more travel-friendly option.

It’s still got all the usual pros of Liberator’s sex furniture, like super soft velvety cover and a moisture-resistant liner, just in a smaller package!

In my experience, the Jaz works great under the hips in missionary (or missionary adjacent) sex positions, but it wasn’t quite high enough for doggy or other styles. I can also imagine it wouldn’t be the best for those in bigger bodies.

Best Toy Mounts Liberator BonBon Toy Mount

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 140 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Liberator BonBon Toy Mount was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex pillow.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Liberator BonBon Toy Mount was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Liberator BonBon Toy Mount was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • High-density, half-barrel sex pillow
  • Pocket to hold sex toy
  • Moisture-resistant lining
  • Soft-machine washable cover

Specifications

Pros

  • Can be used with a dildo or vibrator
  • Great for solo or couples play
  • Comfortable to ride

Cons

  • Size won't suit those who are particularly tall or short
  • Some toys aren't long enough
  • Difficult to access toy's buttons

Why I Chose It

I went for the BonBon over other toy mounts because it’s the most versatile in terms of which toys you can use it with. I love the idea of combining sex pillows with sex toys, as most sex furniture pieces are designed with couples in mind, and this one is a brilliant toy both for solo and couple’s play!

Our tester, Kasia, said the BonBon is “a revolutionary tool for masturbation” and also found it “comes in very handy during penetrative sex.” She found it was great for “extra support during doggy style” and “opened the door for extra creativity in the bedroom.” She loved how she could have a different experience by riding her favorite toys hands-free.

The BonBon has a different design than the sex wedges; it’s more rounded and higher, which in solo play will be perfect for grinding and bouncing, and for couple’s play, I recommend using it for doggy-style positions or oral play.

The sex toy hole worked well for rabbits and dildos, but it wouldn’t work for smaller toys or full-sized wands. If you do want a mount for wands, I can personally recommend the Liberator Wanda, which I really enjoyed testing!

Most Versatile Liberator Flip Ramp

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 86 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Liberator Flip Ramp was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex pillow.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Liberator Flip Ramp was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Liberator Flip Ramp was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Two different constellations
  • High-density foam
  • Moisture-resistant linings
  • Machine-washable covers

Specifications

Pros

  • Can be stored discreetly
  • Supports the hole body
  • Can be used in multiple positions

Cons

  • Might not be great for much larger bodies
  • Takes up a lot of space

Why I Chose It

I had to add the Liberator Flip Ramp as it is an amazing piece of equipment! It’s one of the most versatile sex pillows on my list, and I specifically chose it for those looking for a lot of body support.

Our tester, Cassie, and her partner “had a blast trying out the Liberator Flip Ramp”. They loved that it “provide[d] great support during longer sessions.” She also noted that it makes for some comfy living room lounging too! Her only critique was that it might not work so well for people in larger bodies, as although it’s high-density foam, it might not hold all weights.

I love multipurpose tools, and this one really delivers on that front. Folded out, it’s like a small sex chaise with curves to support your body, and folded up, it makes a fantastic spanking bench or stool! From my professional experience, I see it as a great choice for those who want a sex pillow that offers full body support, and it will work amazingly for stabilizing your body for longer periods during many different sex positions. I also like that it is sturdy enough to support two people at once, which opens the door for exploring even more exciting positions!

Comparison

BestTest Winner Best for Beginners Best Budget-Friendly Best for Bondage Smallest Best Toy Mounts Most Versatile
Overall score4.8 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
Bedbible rating5.0 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
User rating4.7 / 5.0
from 436 users
5 / 5.0
from 1 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 54 users
4.9 / 5.0
from 161 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 183 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 140 users
4.3 / 5.0
from 86 users
PriceModerate Moderate Affordable Premium Pricey Moderate Pricey
Design95 / 100 50 / 100 75 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 95 / 100
Ease of use95 / 100 70 / 100 85 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100
Quality100 / 100 50 / 100 80 / 100 95 / 100 60 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100
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Power-------
Buzzy/Rumbly-------
Length14 inches14.47 inches24 inchesWedge: 14, Ramp: 34 inches14 inches15 inchesFlat: 37, Folded: 19 inches
Width24 inches18.89 inches-Wedge: 24, Ramp: 24 inches18 inches12 inchesFlat: 19, Folded: 19 inches
Height7 inches6.29 inches7 inchesWedge: 7, Ramp: 12 inches6 inches8.5 inchesFlat: 12, Folded: 15 inches
MaterialsNylon Microfiber, Polyester, Polyurethane Foam High Density Foam, Nylon Polyester Polyurethane foam, nylon microfiber cover, polyester lining Polyester microvelvet, polyurethane foam Microvelvet, Polyester, Foam: polyurethane, Cover: polyester
WaterproofMoisture-Resistant Liner Moisture Proof No Moisture resistant lining Moisture-resistant lining Moisture-resistant lining Moisture-resistant lining
Colors AvailableBlack, Blue, Red, Purple, Gray, Brown Red Black Black -Grey, black, blue, rose, red Black, Platinum, Merlot, Plum, Natural, Espresso
Storage Bag Included---No ---
Fastening---Cuffs: Velcro, plastic clips ---
Vibration modes----Cyan, rose, red, black, platinum, gold, natural, ocean, silver --
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If You Are Looking For…

  • Best sex pillow for full body support: The Liberator Flip Ramp is large enough to stabilize your position for longer periods, and thanks to its versatile design, you can change its shape, which makes exploring new sex positions easier and more accessible. It can accommodate up to 600 pounds, making it a great choice for a couple’s play. 
  • Best sex pillow for solo play: I recommend the Liberator BonBon as the best sex pillow and toy mount combo. Its pocket is designed for many different kinds of insertable toys, and the pillow has the perfect shape and height to provide body support and comfort during grinding and bouncing. 

What Should You Consider When Shopping for a Sex Pillow?

Material

Material

Material

Sex pillows generally fall into two categories: foam and inflatable.

  • Foam pillows are made from dense materials that offer sturdy body support, making them suitable for various body types and sizes. They are also more durable and easier to maintain. However, they can be bulky and take up considerable space.
  • Inflatable pillows are a lighter option, offering portability and easier storage. While they provide support, they may be less suitable for larger bodies or multiple users. Their ability to be deflated makes them convenient for travel and storage, offering flexibility that foam options may lack.
Shape

Shape

Shape

Some sex pillows are designed to provide support in specific areas or make certain positions more comfortable. As you shop, think about how you plan to use the pillow and what you’re looking for to help find the right fit. I’ve listed 4 types of sex pillows you can find and what they are the best for:

  • Wedges are designed to angle your hips for more satisfying penetrative sex, particularly in the missionary position or its variations.
  • Ramps offer the same benefits as wedges, but—thanks to their larger size—can support your entire body! This makes them for people with larger bodies. The added height compared to a wedge also makes them better for support in doggy-style positions.
  • Compact Pillows are best for added support in a missionary position and are a good option if you are short on space.
  • Sex Toy Mounts have a hole, or sometimes multiple holes to hold different sex toys, allowing you to enjoy them hands-free during solo or partnered play. Different mounts can accommodate different styles of sex toys.
Case

Case

Case

I always recommend going for sex furniture with a waterproof case that’s removable and can be washed in a washing machine. That makes the clean-up and overall comfort of your play much higher, as you don’t have to worry about your body fluids and you get to explore different types of lube or massage oils.

Benefits of Using a Wedge Pillow During Sex

Angles

Angles

Angles

Bustle reported on a study by Dame Labs which found that 81% of respondents wanted to find better angles during sex with their partner.

That’s understandable — it’s simply a matter of trigonometry! Let me explain…

Say you’re in the missionary position. If your body is flat on the bed and your partner is penetrating you, they’ll be doing so at a slight downwards angle. That means that their penis or dildo will be hitting the back wall of your vagina the most.

However, when your hips are raised, the angle is more horizontal. That means they’ll make much greater contact with the front wall of your vagina, and therefore your g-spot. It also allows for better access to the anus, if that’s something you’re into (or curious about…).

Deeper Penetration

Deeper Penetration

Deeper Penetration

Using a wedge or pillow during sex can also be a gateway to much deeper penetration.

If both you and your partner on the same level, then they’ll find it much easier to thrust deeper.

This can be super satisfying for both parties! You’ll experience a much ‘fuller’ feeling, and may even get some a-spot stimulation. The a-spot (or anterior fornix) is located at the inner-most part of the vagina, next to the cervix, and is a part of your internal clitoral structure like the g-spot.

Deep stimulation can feel super pleasurable, and can result in some deeply satisfying orgasms.

A sex wedge can help you achieve deep penetration in lots different positions, from missionary, doggy and beyond!

Accessibility

Accessibility

Accessibility

There are a myriad of reasons why people might not be able to assume or hold themselves in a position. But why should limited mobility be a barrier to enjoying all the best angles that sex has to offer?

There’s lots of sex furniture out there that can help with these issues! A sex wedge can change the angle of penetration, raise the penis-haver’s hips to help ‘push back’ as you grind and more, all without you needing the muscle strength to do it yourself!

Explore More Positions

Explore More Positions

Explore More Positions

It may be that you have some mobility issues preventing you from trying out some more adventurous positions, or perhaps you and your partner have a large height difference. Whatever the hurdle is, a sex wedge can often help out.

Depending on placement and position, a sex wedge or pillow can open up a whole new world of sex positions. They’re not limited to partnered sex positions, either! A sex wedge can be a helpful friend for your solo masturbation sessions, too.

Scroll down a section or two to see our tips for using a sex wedge in all kinds of different positions.

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Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 33
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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