5 Best Small Strap On Dildos

Cassie Mørch
by Cassie MørchUpdated:

Together with the Bedbible Tester Team, I’ve picked out some of the best small strap on dildos that we’ve tested here at Bedbible. I’ve rated them based on their design, quality, and ease of use, and included some insights from our testers’ personal experience with each product. Let’s take a look!

Test Winner

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 51 user reviews

Runner-Up

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 36 user reviews

Best For Beginners

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Felicia Roy

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 27 user reviews

Best Strapless

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Kit

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

3.8/5

Based on user reviews

Tantus CharmerTantus Silk MediumFun Factory Limba Flex SmallStrap-On-Me Bendable Strap On SmallROMP Piccolo
Tantus CharmerTantus Silk MediumFun Factory Limba Flex SmallStrap-On-Me Bendable Strap On SmallROMP Piccolo
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • High-quality silicone
  • Lightly curved for g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Firm yet flexible shaft
  • Gorgeous lavender color
  • No suction cup base
  • No storage bag
  • Silicone is flexible but firm enough for internal massage
  • Great shape for beginners
  • Easy to use and clean
  • No suction cup base
  • Might be too simple for more experienced users
  • Doesn't feel realistic
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Poseable feature for customized fun
  • Super strong suction cup base
  • On the firmer side
  • For some, it may be too short for hands-free riding
  • Doesn't come with a storage bag
  • Stays in place very well
  • Easy to customize for different bodies
  • Variety of sizes to choose from
  • Dildo is a bit floppy and difficult to control
  • Great for complete beginners
  • Super affordable
  • Offers vibrations for both wearer and receiver
  • Size inclusive with a wide range of adjustability
  • Excess strap length can be annoying
  • Dildo doesn't sit very securely in the o-ring

How We Test small strap ons

We’re a team of 350 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best small strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 97 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre small strap ons didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1314 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How Did Testing and Reviewing Small Strap-Ons Look Like?

Test Winner Tantus Charmer Silicone Dildo

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 51 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Charmer Silicone Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Charmer Silicone Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Charmer Silicone Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Non-anatomical silicone dildo
  • Lightly curved with 4 rolling ridges along the shaft
  • Tapered yet wide tip that gradually gets slimmer towards the base.

Specifications

Pros

  • High-quality silicone
  • Lightly curved for g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Firm yet flexible shaft
  • Gorgeous lavender color

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • No storage bag

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Charmer has a pretty unique shape and size that makes it perfect to use as a small strap-on dildo both vaginal and anal penetration. I own a few dildos from Tantus myself, and I can attest to the premium quality and durability of these dildos.

When our tester, Isabelle, reviewed it or us, she did mention that it left her wanting “wanting a fuller feeling when using vaginally”. Although, this was mostly because she is an experienced user trying out a beginner-friendly dildo. This is exactly why it’s an amazing small strap-on dildo! The tip is wider than the base of the shaft which may make it even more comfortable for newbies who want internal stimulation without too much of a stretch.

Isabelle also highlighted the slight rides that gave her a “feel of anal beads” and that they are “pronounced enough to that you can feel them without being too intense”. Again, the perfect match for anyone looking for a small strap on dildo to start out with.

Despite Isabelle looking for something a bit bigger for vaginal use, she does “find myself reaching for it on the regs”.

Runner-Up Tantus Silk Medium

4.6/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 36 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Simple and sleek silicone dildo
  • Smooth, frictionless surface
  • Doubles as a dilator.

Specifications

Pros

  • Silicone is flexible but firm enough for internal massage
  • Great shape for beginners
  • Easy to use and clean

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • Might be too simple for more experienced users
  • Doesn't feel realistic

Why I Chose It

I’ll admit, ranking another Tantus dildo as the Runner-Up makes me look a bit biased. I know, I know, I’m supposed to be the objective expert. But let this be testament to the quality and performance of Tantus dildos! Now, the Tantus Silk stands out because of its smooth, frictionless shaft. Our tester, Kasia, has tested her fair share of toys and said it is “a perfect choice for those that are looking for a starter insertable toy, or just an easy and always accessible dildo”.

It did turn out to be “too small for a filling and stimulating experience” for her, but despite that she was “not disappointed” because it could be used “for foreplay, anal play, and many other fun and spicy bedroom activities!”.

Just like the Tantus Charmer, Kasia said it has “a round base that can be used in a harness”, but no suction cup making it a better small strap -n dildo, rather than a dildo for hands-free use.

The last important thing she pointed out was that it is because the “core is firm” this means she “had no problem reaching the G-spot” and in the end she said “I didn’t expect to enjoy such a small dildo, but I was pleased with the smoothness”.

Best For Beginners Fun Factory Limba Flex Small

4.3/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Felicia Roy

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 27 user reviews

70/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Small was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Small was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Small silicone strap-on dildo with a tapered tip
  • Poseable feature let’s you bend the dildo at whatever angle you want
  • Asymmetrical suction cup base.

Specifications

Pros

  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Poseable feature for customized fun
  • Super strong suction cup base

Cons

  • On the firmer side
  • For some, it may be too short for hands-free riding
  • Doesn't come with a storage bag

Why I Chose It

In her review of the Fun Factory Limba Flex, our tester, Felicia said: “Don’t let its small size fool or disappoint you before trying it”.

Even though it may look underwhelming for some, this dildo performs impressively as a small strap-on dildo thanks to the poseable feature. The internal metal rod allows you to customize the shape of the dildo to target your personal sweet spots.

Felicia said it “It shaped very easily” and that “it 100% kept its shape” during use, which is generally my experience with this bendable feature from Fun Factory.

The Y-shaped base will make it “fit perfectly into one of your favorite strap-on belts”, and Felicia did say that “with my hubby who wore a double strap on; it felt great”.

One thing to keep in mind is that this dildo is “it is a bit on the harder side”, and using it more aggressively can cause discomfort.

Best Strapless Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap On Small

5.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap On Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap On Small was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap On Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Small strapless strap-on that’s meant to stay in place with the insertable “pony”
  • Bulbous “pony” for the wearer, and a slim, smooth dildo with a pronounced tip for the receiver
  • Adjustable “hinge” for a customized fit
  • Available in 3 different sizes (S, M, L).

Specifications

Pros

  • Stays in place very well
  • Easy to customize for different bodies
  • Variety of sizes to choose from

Cons

  • Dildo is a bit floppy and difficult to control

Why I Chose It

I had the honor of testing out the Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap-On. I found it incredibly comfortable to wear and surprisingly easy to keep in place. Now, as a sex toy expert I know that this is definitely NOT a given for strapless strap-ons. But, thanks to the bulbous shape of the insertable pony, I was baffled to see that it required less support than I was expecting!

The egg-shaped pony had an amazing additional benefit that it put pretty intense pressure on my g-spot every time the dildo moved. This felt incredible and allowed me to enjoy the experience more than I had anticipated!

I did also try it as a receiver and wasn’t remarkably impressed with the girth of the dildo. That’s mostly because I consider myself something of a size queen and has little to do with the performance of the dildo itself. That said, I absolutely loved how that pronounced tip caressed and massaged my g-spot!

Overall, I think it’s a great quality product and I very much appreciate the ability to adjust the hinge to get the perfect angle for whoever is using it. It’s also one of the smallest strap-on dildos that we’ve reviewed here at Bedbible, so it very much deserves its place in this round-up!

Best Kit ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit

4.3/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

3.8/5

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Complete small strap-on kit for beginners
  • Includes a short, slimline silicone dildo and an adjustable harness made of SBR fabric
  • Harness is adjustable can fit up to 55.1 inches around the waist
  • Both the dildo and harness have small pockets for a bullet vibrator.

Specifications

Pros

  • Great for complete beginners
  • Super affordable
  • Offers vibrations for both wearer and receiver
  • Size inclusive with a wide range of adjustability

Cons

  • Excess strap length can be annoying
  • Dildo doesn't sit very securely in the o-ring

Why I Chose It

I actually had the pleasure of testing out the ROMP Piccolo for myself, and I was pleasantly surprised! For such a low price point I was almost expecting something very disappointing in quality. Although I wouldn’t call it a premium quality product, I was impressed with the overall experience.

The harness itself was easy to put on and adjust. This was my very first strap-on harness and it was not near as confusing as I was afraid it might be! I’m also a plus-sized person so I was a bit apprehensive about the fit, but the straps had a wide range of adjustability and accommodated me well!

The dildo itself is VERY small. This is perfect for first time users or pegging for beginners, but I wouldn’t say it’s the most stimulating dildo out there. Although, once you’ve outgrown this small strap-on dildo, you can easily use the harness with a bigger one. Still, I like how there are two pockets for you to add your own bullet vibrators. This way, both the wearer and receiver get to enjoy some vibes at the same time!

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner-Up Best For Beginners Best Strapless Best Kit
Overall score4.7 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.7 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0
User rating4.6 / 5.0
from 51 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 36 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 27 users
5 / 5.0
from 3 users
3.8 / 5.0
from 5 users
PriceAffordable Affordable Moderate Moderate Affordable
Design90 / 100 90 / 100 70 / 100 95 / 100 95 / 100
Ease of use90 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100
Quality100 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100
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Power-----
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Length7 inches5.75 inches5.75 inches9.4 inches5.5 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches5.25 inches4.3 inches6.1 inches5 inches
Diameter1.4 inches1.1 inches1.2 inchesDildo: 1.06 inches, Pony: 1.53 inches1 inches
WaterproofYes Yes Yes Yes Dildo: Yes, Harness: Splashproof
MaterialsSilicone Silicone Silicone Exterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic Silicone, SBR Fabrics
Storage Bag IncludedNo No No Yes No
Colors AvailablePurple Black, Purple Electric Blue, Caribbean Blue Black, Purple Multicolor
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Author
Cassie Mørch
Cassie Mørch

Content Specialist | Anthropologist with a passion for exploring how humans understand sex, pleasure, and intimacy. I believe sexual well-being and pleasure is intricately linked to our overall health and well-being in ways that we probably can’t even comprehend! That’s why I love being able to write about all things related to sex, masturbation, and kink. Hopefully, our informative and sex-positive approach here at Bedbible will allow you to explore your true desires – and help you fulfill them!

Age: 26
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Le Wand Hoop Stainless Steel Dildo
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