5 Best Starter Strap Ons for Beginners
When I was looking for my first starter strap-on, I was completely overwhelmed by all the different choices, styles, and sizes. Strap-ons can look more intimidating than they actually are, so I’m here to guide you through the process. I’ve compiled a list of my top recommendations for beginner-friendly strap-ons, harnesses, and dildos that we’ve personally tested and reviewed here at Bedbible. Let’s take a look!
Test Winner4.3  Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.1/5 User Ratings: 4.5/5 Based on 70 user reviews | Runner-Up4.6 Overall Rating 4.6/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.7/5 Reviewed by: Catherine SeeleyUser Ratings: 4.4/5 Based on 704 user reviews | Budget-Friendly4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.7/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 3.8/5 Based on 5 user reviews | Best Beginner Strapless4.9 Overall Rating 4.9/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.9/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 4.9/5 Based on 3 user reviews | Best Beginner Harness4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Vern HollandUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 103 user reviews |
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How We Test starter strap ons
We’re a team of 350 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best starter strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 97 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre starter strap ons didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1313 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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Test Winner Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.1/5
Reviewed by:
Christina DynamiteUser Ratings:
4.5/5
Based on 70 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the starter strap on.
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Strap-on kit with two smooth silicone dildos and bullet vibrator
- Adjustable harness fits hips up to 60 inches and legs up to 26.5 inches
- Two different sizes of o-rings included.
Vibrations
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Great kit that has everything you need
- ✅ Harness can be used with other larger dildos
- ✅ Great range of adjustability
- ✅ Easy to take apart and clean
Cons
- ❌ Vibrator pocket moves around
- ❌ Harness may be uncomfortable for long-term wear
Why I Chose It
I selected the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit as the Test Winner in this review because I think it’s a great starter strap-on kit. It has everything you need to get started–even as a complete beginner who has little experience with penetration in general.
Our tester, Christina, found that “for givers, it fits quite a range of hip sizes and allows control without coming loose. For receivers, it has reasonably-sized and über-smooth dildos which can ease any apprehension and yet still provide decent vaginal and anal stimulation.” Being able to sterilize them completely is a great plus in that regard!
While the design is fairly simple, I think it’s perfectly stimulating for beginners. According to Christina, that slight curve may be “good for helping the receptive partner moan the alphabet from G-spot to P-spot.”
While the removable bullet vibrator is battery-operated and “feels like a cheap plastic cover, [it] has a decently strong buzz and has proven durable.”
Runner-Up Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set
Overall Rating
4.6/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5
Reviewed by:
Catherine SeeleyUser Ratings:
4.4/5
Based on 704 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the starter strap on.
Rating: Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Starter strap-on set with a slimline silicone dildo
- Adjustable harness fits waists up to 60 inches
- Comes with a flexible, silicone o-ring with a diameter of 1.25 inches.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Easy to clean materials
- ✅ Easy to use design
- ✅ Good for beginners
- ✅ Good price for good quality
Cons
- ❌ Takes time to put on and adjust
- ❌ Dildo occasionally comes free of the O-ring
- ❌ Packaging is not discreet
Why I Chose It
Our tester, Catherine, concluded that “the Sportsheets New Comer Strap-On is a great beginner’s set” because of how easy it is to use. It takes the cake as our Runner-Up for today because it’s a good quality starter strap-on option for those who aren’t necessarily interested in vibrations.
I like how adjustable the harness itself is and that “the straps are versatile and fairly simple to tighten and loosen in place.”
The size and shape of the dildo “is perfect for pegging or for limited vaginal penetration”. Being able to sterilize the silicone makes it ideal for interchangeably for anal and vaginal play.
The main con that Catherine pointed out is that “the dildo can sometimes pull out of the strap-on’s O-ring” because it’s slightly stretchy. Try not to tighten the harness strap too much to avoid this issue.
Budget-Friendly ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
3.8/5
Based on 5 user reviews
Rating: ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the starter strap on.
Rating: ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: ROMP Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Strap-on kit with a super small silicone dildo included
- Adjustable harness can fit up to 55.1″ around the waist and has a small pocket for a bullet vibrator.
- Dildo has a suction cup base and a hole for a bullet vibrator (not included).
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Two pockets for bullet vibrators
- ✅ Straps are easy to adjust
- ✅ Size inclusive (fits up to 55.1" around the waist and 31.5" around the legs)
Cons
- ❌ Excess strap length can be annoying
- ❌ O-ring is almost too big for the dildo
Why I Chose It
The ROMP Piccolo is my top recommendation for a starter strap-on kit that won’t break the bank. It’s a decent quality strap-on kit that’s both versatile and affordable.
Our tester, Cassie, was a bit uncertain about the sizing but noted that “it fit me very well and the straps were easy to adjust once I got the hang of it.”
I really like that both the dildo and the harness both have small pockets for a bullet vibrator. This way, both the wearer and receiver can enjoy some added stimulation.
“I was surprised to see how small the dildo actually was, so it was perfect for pegging beginners like my partner and I.” That said, the dildo does seem a tad too small for the o-ring in the harness. This does make it feel less secure and provides less control overall. On the bright side, that does mean larger dildos you might level up with will fit a lot better!
Best Beginner Strapless Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small
Overall Rating
4.9/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.9/5
Based on 3 user reviews
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the starter strap on.
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Strapless strap-on design that offers dual stimulation for both the wearer and the receiver
- Super smooth and slim shaft
- Can be used with harness if need be
- Adjustable hinge for a perfect fit.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ High quality construction
- ✅ Variety of sizes to choose from
- ✅ Easy to customize to accommodate different bodies
- ✅ Stays in place well
Cons
- ❌ The dildo is a bit floppy and difficult to control
Why I Chose It
Cassie, who tested the this beginner-friendly strapless strap on for us, said that despite all the rumors on strapless strap-ons not really working “it was comfortable to wear and requires less support than I thought a strapless strap-on would require”.
It stayed in place is because of the large bulb on the pony, which is unlike most other strapless strap-ons where the bulb is less of an egg-shape like it is here.
It had the added benefit for Cassie that “it put pressure on [her] g-spot every time the dildo moved”, which caused the “experience [to be] a lot more interactive than I was expecting a strapless strap-on to be”.
The fact that the special design on the pony “keeps it in place pretty effectively” caused me to pick this as the perfect choice for any beginner, because it is very likely the thing you are going to be struggling with. On top of that the dildo is a very slim and approachable size, making it a good match for newbies.
Best Beginner Harness Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Briefs
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Vern HollandUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 103 user reviews
Rating: Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Briefs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the starter strap on.
Rating: Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Briefs was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Briefs was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Brief-style strap-on harness made of soft cotton
- Comes in 4 sizes S/M to XXL
- Unisex design
- One non-interchangeable O-ring with 1.5 inches in diameter
- Pocket to fit bullet vibrator.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Made of stretchy and breathable material
- ✅ Look stylish and sexy
- ✅ Able to use them in a variety of ways
- ✅ Suitable for average sized and smaller dildos
Cons
- ❌ Not adjustable
- ❌ Don't come in sizes larger than XXL
- ❌ Not able to change the size of the O-ring
Why I Chose It
Vern, who tested the Lovehoney Unisex Strap On Briefs is one of our most avid testers. He’s an experienced strap-on user, and absolutely loved and raved about these in his review.
He especially pinpointed the comfort level, and say he could “wear them all day without discomfort”, and that they “are great for pegging, packing, and feeling sexy”.
Although he did praise them to the skies, rightfully so, they do have their downside. First, if your “dildo is on the heavy side, it’s going to pull the briefs down a little when walking around or thrusting”, but although it’s a downside for Vern it is simply a fact of the nature of the product, in my expert opinion.
One downside he did point out that I agree with is that “they’re cheaper” which does mean “they aren’t going to stay pristine forever“.
Although, it is a downside for someone like Vern, who is an avid user, the price does make it a great choice for beginners.
In essence, you can try strap-on sex with a dildo you have at home (or buy a cheap one) with the one-size O-ring, and figure out, if it’s something you want to continue with – without spending to much on getting started.
Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Budget-Friendly | Best Beginner Strapless | Best Beginner Harness |
| Overall score | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.5 / 5.0 from 70 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 704 users | 3.8 / 5.0 from 5 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 103 users |
| Price | Affordable | Affordable | Affordable | Moderate | Affordable |
| Design | 60 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 85 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Quality | 75 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 75 / 100 |
| Sound | 40 / 100 | - | - | - | - |
| Power | 40 / 100 | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | somewhat buzzy | - | - | - | - |
| Vibration speeds | 3 | - | - | - | - |
| Length | Small Dildo: 4.5 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.75 inches | Dildo: 5.75 inches | Dildo: 5.5 inches | - | - |
| Insertable length | Small Dildo: 4.25 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.5 inches | Dildo: 4.75 inches | Dildo: 5 inches | 6.1 inches | - |
| Diameter | Small Dildo: 0.8 inches, Medium Dildo: 1 inches | Dildo: 0.9 inches, O-ring: 1.25 inches | Dildo: 1 inches | 1.06 inches | O-Ring: 1.5 inches |
| Materials | Dildos: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Hard Plastic | Dildo: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Polypropylene, ABS Plastic, Nitrile | Silicone, SBR Fabrics | Exterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic | Cotton, Elastane |
| Waterproof | Dildos: Yes, Vibrator: Yes, Harness: Machine-Washable | Yes | Dildo: Yes, Harness: Splashproof | Yes | Yes |
| Rechargeable | No, Uses 1 N-type Battery | - | - | - | - |
| Storage Bag Included | No | No | No | Yes | No |
| Colors Available | Purple | Purple/Black | Multicolor | Black, Purple | Black |
| Harness Size | Fits hips up to 60 inches and legs up to 26.5 inches inches | Fits waists up to 60 inches | Waist: up to 55.1 inches, Legs: up to 31.5 inches | - | S/M, M/L, L/XL, XXL inches |
| Diameter (internal) | - | - | - | 1.53 inches | - |
Reviewed by:
Christina Dynamite