5 Best Strapless Strap-On Dildos

Why I Chose It

I’ve picked out the Lovense Lapis as the Test Winner for this review because it’s a great quality product that offers pretty powerful vibrations. Better yet, these vibrations can be controlled via the Lovense Remote app and unlock unlimited vibration patterns. This also allows you to use the strapless strap-on as a pretty versatile long-distance toy. It works well as both an external and internal vibrator for solo play, and can be used both vaginally and anally.

Our tester, Joseph, had a great time with the Lovense Lapis: “As someone who’s not typically a top, I found its powerful vibrations incredibly satisfying, offering a unique blend of pleasure. The softness of the silicone adds a luxurious feel, and its quietness is a huge plus.”

Although, the biggest challenge was that maintaining its position without a harness was a bit difficult. This is a pretty common issue with a lot of strapless strap-ons. They jsut aren’t as easy to keep in compared to the ease of wearing a harness. So, to make things a lot easier during long sessions especially, Joseph recommended using it in a strap-on harness.

Why I Chose It

I’ve had the pleasure of testing out the Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small myself. All I can say is: wow! Even though it’s a fairly simple, silicone toy that doesn’t offer vibrations or any special features, it feels amazing and you can tell that it’s a high quality construction.

I really enjoy internal vaginal stimulation and appreciate some g-spot pampering, and that was definitely the case with this strap-on. The egg-shaped insertable pony puts the perfect amount of pressure on the g-spot. My favorite part is that you can actually feel every movement in the dildo through that pony.

The dildo itself also feels very comfortable. It’s quite flexible and floppy so it’s a bit unruly at times but once it’s inserted it’s easily manageable. The slim and smooth design makes it very beginner-friendly and perfect for first-time peggers. Although the pronounced tip will still deliver plenty of internal massage.

Why I Chose It

Now, our tester, Vern didn’t actually have a great time with the Fun Factory Share Lite. They still had to whip out a harness to be able to enjoy it hands-free, and even then it didn’t do wonders for them or their partner. That said, I still wanted to include it in this review and point out some of its pros. As a sex toy tester, one thing I know for sure is that one man’s meat is a another man’s poison. Someone else out there may just be a perfect fit for the Fun Factory Share Lite.

First of all, the two bulbs on the insertable pony seem to be ergonomically shaped to better stimulate the wearer (and to better stay put). As someone who enjoys g-spot stimulation while wearing a strapless strap-on, the design is definitely appealing to me. The lightweight core is also specifically designed to help the product stay in place.

One main con (that ultimately renders it incompatible with some people and some body types) is the lack of adjustability. Most other products in this review have completely posable hinges allowing you to tailor the angle of the item to your liking. While the hinge of this strap-on is slightly flexible, it doesn’t actually adjust. Luckily, the Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro does, and I’ll get to that one later on in the review!

Why I Chose It

From the velvety smooth silicone to the lockable storage case that lets you charge your toy discreetly, you are getting a truly luxurious experience with this strapless strap-on. It’s also the only product in this review that offers extra clitoral stimulation with the rabbit ears. Now, rabbit vibrators may not be a good fit for everyone, but for those who already know that they love the sensation of these silicone nubs vibrating around the clit, this strapless strap-on could be a great choice.

Our tester, Vicki, loved how the intense vibrations amped up the stimulation for both partners. She also found that the strap-on works very well for solo pleasure as well! “I pleasantly discovered that this toy could be used as two separate toys too: G-spot vibrator and a vibrating dildo! The top bit for G spot can be adjusted too so it is easier to put on the exact right spot to achieve maximum amounts of pleasure.” This is also why it’s nice to be able to control the vibrations in both ends of the toy separately.

One downside for me is that the controls are located on the bottom of the toy and are difficult to access when you are already in the swing of things. For this price, I think it would be fair to expect a remote control. Now, especially because of the rabbit ears, I would recommend using this strap-on with a harness. This way you’ll be sure that those rabbit ears stay in position while you’re thrusting.

Why I Chose It

My expert pick today is definitely the Fun Factory Share Vibe Pro. This strapless strap-on does a great job at staying in place during your session without needed a harness to keep it in place. Similar to the Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-on Small, there are a few design elements (like the adjustable hinge and bulbous pony) that helps it stay put when in use. The main difference is the overall size and the powerful vibrations that this one offers.

Our tester, Jess, tried both the original Fun Factory ShareVibe and the Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro. This one was definitely an improvement for both Jess and her husband. Not only is it bigger and girthier, the adjustable hinge makes it easier to customize to your body. Jess also felt like the pony itself “was a lot more of a defined shape.”

Jess noted that “it was a lot easier to keep in during penetration than the original Share Vibe was. I was able to penetrate my husband without any harness without the toy popping out, but I did occasionally have to reach down and hold it in for additional support.”

It also worked beautifully as a toy for solo play. It was adjustable enough to be used as a dildo with a handle and powerful g-spot vibrator, or clitoral vibrator.