5 Best Vibrating Strap-Ons

Why I Chose It

I personally love sex toys from Lovense, and I was excited when they finally released an app-controlled vibrating strapless strap-on! I expected deep and rumbly vibrations and a premium-quality design. Lucky for us, that’s exactly what we got.

Our tester, Joseph, really enjoyed their experience with the Lapis! They were impressed by the strong vibrations so much, they said, “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting.” This is definitely one the most powerful vibrating strapless strap on the market, and I can highly recommend it to anyone who values good quality vibrations and high-tech pleasure devices. Design-wise, Joseph pointed out that the added texture on the shaft and at the base adds extra stimulation, especially for the wearer, which I think is a great plus.

The key feature of this toy is the app control, and as I expected, it works flawlessly. As a sex toy expert, I’ve tested many app-controlled sex toys, and Lovense Remote app has never disappointed me.

The biggest con is that it doesn’t completely pass the strapless test since it doesn’t always stay in place by itself. Many strapless strap-ons have the same issue, but it does defeat the purpose a bit to have to use it with a harness. Although, Joseph did also mention that the extra security from the harness made for a much more pleasant hands-free experience.

Why I Chose It

The Doc Johnson Be Naughty Strap-On Set takes the cake as the Runner-Up in this review because of the great value for money! I think it offers a lot of different sensation thanks to the selection of dildos and the vibration settings.

The hollow dildos are really what make it stand out from other vibrating strap-ons. These are designed specifically for penis-owners who struggle with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. The firm silicone assists in maintaining a strong erection for your partner, while this added barrier limits the level of stimulation the wearer is feeling. Since the dildos are very firm and can hold their own even without a penis inside, vulva-owners can easily use this strap-on as well.

Our tester, Matthew, enjoyed that “there is a nice variety in shape, length, and girth and I found that changing them out, even in the heat of the moment was quick and easy and didn’t disrupt our flow too much.” That said, he did note that they were sometimes a bit too firm for his wife’s comfort.

Overall, I think it’s a great vibrating strap-on if you struggle with ED or premature ejaculation. As someone who doesn’t, Matthew, concluded his review as such: “The biggest problem I had with this set was the lack of sensation that I as the wearer felt. I feel like adding some texture to the inside of the dildos and reworking the vibrator to be more rumbly than buzzy would be a huge upgrade”.

Why I Chose It

The Wet For Her Union is a great option for those who don’t want to break the bank but still want a good quality vibrating strap-on. The simple and smooth design makes it perfect for beginners as well as for those who prefer non-anatomical designs.

For our tester, Moira, this was her first ever strapless strap-on, and she was quickly enamored by this device: “As a beginner in the strapless dildo game, this dildo is just enough width and length so it’s pleasurable for both users without being overwhelming.” While the strapless design “can take some getting used to using without the security of a strap-on”, it’s surprisingly easy to hold in place.

It works great for solo play as well and the textured ridge does add some extra stimulation for the wearer. The vibrations are not the most powerful, but I think that’s quite appropriate for something so beginner-friendly.

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is the most popular beginner strap-on kit! It has everything you need to start your pegging journey, including a bullet vibrator, an easy-to-use, and an adjustable harness that works on many different body types.

The key feature of this strap-on kit are the popular Tantus Silk Dildos! I own the Tantus Silk Medium, and I am pretty impressed with its quality and overall performance. Usually, beginner toys feature cheap, stiff dildos, but these feel totally different! Both are made with flexible, silky-smooth silicone and come in two beginner-friendly sizes. Based on our tester’s review of the product, “The dildos feel luxurious compared with most beginner butt products.” 

Performance-wise, Christina said that “the harness did not loosen at all while thrusting, and the dildo stayed securely in place,” but she and her partner wished that the straps were made from softer material. When it comes to the vibrations, she also said that the bullet has a “decently strong buzz and has proven durable,” but it felt a bit “cheap” and didn’t offer a ton of stimulation once inserted in the pocket.

All in all, I think that the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is a decent product, perfect for total beginners that want to have a smooth and comfortable first experiment with pegging but don’t want to invest in a high-end vibrating strap on. I agree that the design and quality of the harness and the bullet could be better, but given the attractive price and the addition of 2 really well-made dildos, I think it’s worth a try.

Why I Chose It

I had include the Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Strapless Strap-On as my Expert Pick because of the sheer intensity it offers. Where most vibrating strap-ons only provide vibrations for the wearer to enjoy, this one has a soft silicone flickering tongue to pamper your clit. This makes it ideal for using solo as well as with a partner!

Our tester, Moira, was blown away by the sensations from this little device: “This toy is intensity overload. If you like that all-encompassing, overwhelming, orgasms-forced-out-of-you feeling, this toy is for you.” Although, keep in mind that it’s not ideal for beginners in terms of both shape and size. There’s definitely also a learning curve to figuring out how to get the most out of all the different features.

The remote control makes it super easy to operate without having to reach down to change the settings. While it is a bit expensive, I genuinely think this vibrating strap-on offers a lot of bang for your buck. The main reason Moira didn’t give it an amazing rating was the magnetic charging port: “If the manufacturer updated the charging cable, this would be a near perfect toy, but alas it must get dinged for the effort it takes to charge.”